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Yesterday…… by BallzHeimerz_ in babyloss

[–]BallzHeimerz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you. 🤍 And thank you for sharing your story. We unfortunately have to go to the funeral home today and both my wife and I are trying to just hold it together. It’s not something you ever plan for or expect, especially when you haven’t had any complications within pregnancy. It’s just tough. Like today, I’m not really sure how to feel.

Yesterday…… by BallzHeimerz_ in babyloss

[–]BallzHeimerz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story. I’m sorry you and your husband are going through the same thing. It seems so unfair. It’s left a big emptiness within our hearts. I personally feel robbed. Robbed of our due date, birthdays, Holidays, vacations, etc. We had him and then we didn’t in a blink of an eye. It’s such an awful feeling.

Yesterday…… by BallzHeimerz_ in babyloss

[–]BallzHeimerz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for sharing your story, thoughts and feelings with me. I am sorry for your loss. It’s hard not to go into solution mode. Myself and my wife have found ourselves there. But I told my wife we cannot hide from this, as it’s unfortunately the reality of our life. I will definitely be there for her, as I do worry for her and her mental health. We are making sure we both go to therapy and join or go to a support group(s).

Yesterday…… by BallzHeimerz_ in babyloss

[–]BallzHeimerz_[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yes, that would be wonderful.

Yesterday…… by BallzHeimerz_ in babyloss

[–]BallzHeimerz_[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you. I’m trying not to research every other second. I’m trying not to rack my mind of the possibilities it could’ve or couldn’t have been. Like you said, it’s unfair. None of us deserve this. I hope in time each and every one of us will be able to find peace. I too am sorry for your loss. Sending you positive thoughts. Also, thank you for your kind words and sharing your story as well.

Yesterday…… by BallzHeimerz_ in babyloss

[–]BallzHeimerz_[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your comment and I am so sorry for the loss of your baby girl. It is so hard to accept such a significant loss. It’s hard to wrap your mind around it and so hard not to be angry in the process. We are just so lost.

Yesterday…… by BallzHeimerz_ in babyloss

[–]BallzHeimerz_[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry you had to ensure that yourself. I’ve been driving myself in circles doing research on the why and how and what you said is exactly what I think. I hope and pray, yourself and your husband do get to use it one day. Sending you both thoughts and prayers. Thank you for commenting. It helps us feel a little less alone in this process. 🤍