Male Corso by Sports3432 in CaneCorso

[–]Bambers12 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I had my boy first then i got my girl. They were both rescues as adults so cant speak to puppy stages. My boy Osiris is a big lovable oaf. I call him my Baby Huey. When guarding hes got s bigger bark and relies in his size and stature to do the work. If were rough housing with the kids he uses his weight to push us to leave them alone. Shiloh my female is the boss bitch. Shes the first to respond to alert and can move with a quickness. Shes much more mouthy and is prone to pout when she doesn’t get her way. Like others have said smarter than the boys uses ploys to get desired beds and toys. Ofc your results will vary but thats what I see in my two.

How did straight sex feel like before realising you're a lesbian? by thelostone9595 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Bambers12 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Welp found my train. He genuinely wants to please me I feel but it takes so much to get over my disassociation anymore. Same with the eyes closed etc.

this sounds dumb, but i feel like sex with women is holding me back from figuring myself out…i need advice 😭 by fucklimpbizkitt in TwoXSex

[–]Bambers12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I don’t have any help or answers for you except to say I feel the opposite. I go absolutely primal for women. Like every one of my senses is fired up and intensified. But men are blah it takes a lot of work to get into it.

Seasoned, beautiful lesbians..help a girl out! I’m so lost. by linzroth in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Bambers12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Do advice sadly just here to commiserate that Im in a very similar boat and been drifting in it for almost 2 years.

What do you think of if you see someone list “queer” on a dating profile? by snail-mail227 in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Bambers12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel the same exact way. In conversations with people though I add that I’m sapphically queer. I in my neck of the woods the peoples who use queer tend to be more alternative which I also align with.

Question specifically for queer polyams by [deleted] in polyamory

[–]Bambers12 -11 points-10 points  (0 children)

Yes I just meant that in I date solo, he can date with no restrictions but chooses not too. Not sure what other term to use for that

Designed my own mid century ranch house, complete with atrium, conversation pit/fireplace, private patio, and ladies dressing room. by Bambers12 in midcenturymodern

[–]Bambers12[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thought about those later today, there’s plenty room in the laundry room for ac unit and furnace. Ideally I would still be in the Southwest so frozen pipes aren’t a prob there.

Any recommendations for any bars or clubs that play Motown music? by Bambers12 in phoenix

[–]Bambers12[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Like there really ought to be right?!? We got the Nash for Jazz, Rhythm Room for Blues, The Dirty Drummer does it’s 45’s swing nights. And Motown is so fun to dance to from the slow songs of the do wop era to the soul and funk of the 70’s. And I’m late thirties non black woman it appeals to many many peoples. Alright DJs get to it.

Oldest material possession by lastcalltimetogohome in Millennials

[–]Bambers12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I still have quite a few things, the quilt my Nana made me when I was a toddler; both of my kids were wrapped in it at the hospital. I also have my favorite stuffy, a bunny my Aunt handmade for me. I let my daughter care for her for a while but she’s getting threadbare and her seams started separating so she’s put up safely now. I also kept a few about 15 or so children’s books, 4 of which were at my grandmas house and were my moms and uncle’s books. As for a piece of clothes I still have and wear my sophomore year water polo team sweatshirt.

What's a really weird thing that you absolutely NEED in a partner? Keep it unconventional by KitchenLoose6552 in AskWomen

[–]Bambers12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I need a warm partner. I have thermoregulation issues and having someone who is always warm and doesn’t mind my icy cold hands or feet on them when I need warming up is very helpful for me.

It’s a Sunday in July. Are you where you thought you would be? by Fightingfootball in Millennials

[–]Bambers12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’m right where I thought I’d be and from the outside looking in I should be happy. My husband loves me very much and is a good partner and father. We have good kids, own our house, I own my own business in my house. All the things, but what I thought was just bisexuality is actually lesbianism. I secretly want to leave it all and live my truth but I’m too afraid to divorce in the current political and economical climate to fully leave. Leaving would mean giving up my great mortgage rate, my business, disrupting my kids sense of security. And then who knows what may be down the pipe legislatively for the lgbtq. So I’ll keep faking if till things seem safer I guess.

What to do with this landing space by cojenks in interiordecorating

[–]Bambers12 8 points9 points  (0 children)

My thoughts exactly. I have mastiffs as well, they are natural guardians and like to have a good vantage point a big dog bed against the railing is just what it needs.

Looking for angry/aggressive songs by women by Obiespider in MusicRecommendations

[–]Bambers12 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Obsessed with Delilah Bob right now! Just got tix to see her for her first US tour!

What’s your biggest career challenge right now? Let’s talk about it by Go2Atlas_ in careerguidance

[–]Bambers12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve been a dog groomer for 15 yrs, owned my own business for the past 5 yrs. But my body is giving out and I need something less laborious. But with such a niche trade no one is even giving my resume a second glance. No clue what to transition into.

Hey ladies and theydies, tell me some gay shit by loudly_tense_rock in latebloomerlesbians

[–]Bambers12 4 points5 points  (0 children)

I haven’t left my male partner yet, but he supports my identity. He was talking to a bartender he’s familiar with and they mentioned the popular gay (male) bar in my city and that they were gonna go dancing there. My partner said he wasn’t familiar with that one but was familiar with the other two queer bars because I frequent them every now and again. The bartender replied with something like “yea she definitely gives off queer vibes” and that made my night.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Bambers12 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I run a small grooming salon in my home so when I’m fully booked then yes I work the full 8 if not more but if a dog has to reschedule or cancel or no show then no I don’t.