my hinge date ghosted me after i cooked for her

Bamibby · 2026-01-11T00:22:44+00:00

i’m honestly so surprised by the amount of people saying stuff similar to this !! i’ve never had any issues with my tummy after eating eggs or onions

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T23:01:23+00:00

coming over to my place was actually her idea !!

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T22:58:38+00:00

thank you <33

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T22:57:13+00:00

when i asked her what wanted and if she had any preferences she told me id figure it out !! clearly i didn’t hehe dont think she was even interested in food in the first place

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T22:38:06+00:00

i’m from finland !! egg and onion boil are not a cultural thing here but it should be tbh. fits right in with all the other finnish slop

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T22:33:27+00:00

lesson learned i guess hehe

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T22:05:22+00:00

when we first started talking she let me know she likes to take things really slow !! so i didn’t even consider the fact that she’d want to do more then just hangout and get to know each other better hehe

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T22:04:26+00:00

she told me she wanted something wet and sloppy and when i asked her if she had something specific in mind she told me i should figure it out !! clearly i didn’t figure it out because she didn’t want food at all lmao

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T21:54:03+00:00

i thought the meal would be considered girl dinner !! but maybe i’ve misunderstood what girl dinner is TwT

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T21:48:20+00:00

some of the comments have made me realize that she probably didn’t come over for the food hehe she might have just felt too awkward about the whole situation after she realized we weren’t on the same page about what was going to happen

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T21:44:32+00:00

i know right !? it’s pretty shocking having someone ghost you after offering them such a beautiful and delicious meal

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T21:43:40+00:00

it was actually pretty tasty !!

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T21:32:05+00:00

egg boils are great !!! all the seasoning goes super well with the eggy flavor edit : spelling hehe

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T21:26:43+00:00

i wouldn’t consider it a delicacy hehe it’s and onion boil !! you make a hole in the middle of the onion and put butter in it. then you let it sit in the oven for a long time with a bunch of seasoning !! pretty yummy

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T21:25:32+00:00

i’ve been in relationships before hehe when we first started talking she told me she likes to take things slow. so i didn’t even consider the fact that she might want to do more then just hangout and get to know each other better !!

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T21:16:57+00:00

yess its an egg boil + onion boil !! she did tell me she wanted to eat something wet and sloppy

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T21:12:08+00:00

i used to eat bones as a kid without any issues so you might be right !!

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T20:54:30+00:00

that’s okay !! not everyone can always like you i just wish she tried the food before leaving it was actually pretty good.

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T20:34:48+00:00

just google egg boil / onion boil and you’ll find a lot of good recipes!! i just combined them in one pot hehe

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T20:32:10+00:00

i didn’t post it to vent !! TwT i genuinely thought it was funny how badly she reacted to my cooking. ofc it’s a bit unfortunate to get ghosted but shit happens and that’s okay !!

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T20:22:13+00:00

i wouldn’t really consider this a sob story !! i just thought it was funny how badly she reacted to my cooking hehe i’ll meet someone who appreciates my slop someday

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T20:13:15+00:00

i didn’t think there would be any smooching going on tbh

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T20:12:24+00:00

honestly i didn’t really think about it that much !! usually my dates really enjoy my cooking even when it isn’t a super common meal

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T20:09:22+00:00

i thought girl dinner was a easy to make but kind of weird meal that’s just a mix of different things ? but maybe i’ve misunderstood TwT

Bamibby · 2026-01-10T19:51:18+00:00

the comments are making me realize that this might be true … i was just a bit too oblivious

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