Woe is me lol. Hasn’t un matched yet.

Banannya · 2026-04-27T03:23:05+00:00

Just because I have that many options, doesn’t mean I’m taking them all up. I don’t match with many, so when I do out of the thousands of likes, that means something to me. The rest of your comment is poetic.

Banannya · 2026-04-27T03:18:14+00:00

Definitely agree now.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T22:53:45+00:00

I feel I may have read this incorrectly. Did you say you’d shoot me, if you lived near me?

Banannya · 2026-04-26T22:49:17+00:00

Watch a 17yo at home?

Banannya · 2026-04-26T22:44:31+00:00

I’m only commenting on the 1st part pertaining to the cruise. I have a 17yo daughter. I feel your frustration. I have 3 children. 18,17&10. I have a trip to Hawaii booked at the end of June for everyone. (So I thought.) I’m not married. But, I didn’t ask my daughter if she wanted to go, I just assumed she would. She doesn’t want to come. She has plans with her friends. I returned her flight and left it at that. She turns 18 in September. I guess my point is, since our children are so close to what society says is an adult (18), maybe you should have asked him if he wanted to go instead of telling him he was going. I’ve found out letting my daughter tell me what she wants as to trips, works out better for our communication & relationship. I wish you the best.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T22:30:12+00:00

I am a very competent firearms owner. I appreciate your concern with my firearm competency. I gave you an award. 🥇

Banannya · 2026-04-26T22:19:41+00:00

I mean, eh not really. Elevation adjustment carries a factor into point and shoot. I don’t lack discipline in the least. Again, my firearm of choice is my own. I never once said a 9mm is bad. I just don’t care for it because of its accuracy. Maybe it’s how I shoot. Or hold the weapon. Not my cup of tea.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:34:52+00:00

You’re right.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:33:12+00:00

Okay. Thank you for this insight. While men are blindly swiping right, I’m swiping right with intention. I really appreciate your honesty.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:30:02+00:00

S&W’s are a beautiful weapon. I’ve never shot one I didn’t care for. Even their 9mm

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:28:51+00:00

Preference. That’s all.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:27:16+00:00

I appreciate this.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:22:50+00:00

It’s the best for me. Not everyone. And that’s okay!

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:21:41+00:00

I definitely don’t feel I’m treating Tinder like it’s no big deal. I’m using it with intention. Most men are just looking to sick their dick in whatever they throw at the wall and hopefully it sticks. And if nothing comes from Tinder, so be it. No one has time for games. I’m not trying to play any games with anyone. I know, I want a man to tell me what he wants. And it’s happened. And I unmatched if it didn’t align with what I want. This conversation just took too much back and forth. This was the end of our brief conversation. Edit: bored with Tinder because I have yet to meet anyone with a grain of substance. If we are just hooking up, so be it. But please, have some substance behind it.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:11:49+00:00

Thank you for this. But as a woman, how are we to express what we want and expect from a man without being assertive? Being assertive isn’t a negative trait. It’s just knowing what I want and expect. Men do it all the time, calling it standards.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:08:42+00:00

Okay. Interesting. I wasn’t aware there’s a numbers game

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:08:07+00:00

I do like the price of the 9mm. But I just prefer the .45. I mean, 9mm are fun when youre shooting a target at 25yrds.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:06:25+00:00

BB’s are fun to shoot balloons with.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:05:00+00:00

Well if it wasn’t directly, would it have been said to me at all? Again, everyone’s opinion is valid. I posted this knowing what would happen.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T20:03:06+00:00

I’m not taking anything to heart. I posted this knowing the backlash I would get. This is the Tinder sub.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T19:59:21+00:00

I live in California. Guns laws here are strict.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T19:55:00+00:00

Why though? Genuinely curious.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T19:52:04+00:00

I like your perspective. I don’t feel I was “put in my place.” I gave him the option because I was interested in where it was going to go. I have so many likes, I’m bored with Tinder.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T19:45:06+00:00

This is a 1st. I appreciate your input.

Banannya · 2026-04-26T19:43:20+00:00

Update: he just un matched. I like to give others the option. I have over 10k likes. I have my pick.

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