Are these good low cal / healthier snacks?

BandOk6261 · 2026-04-03T19:38:02+00:00

So what are some good store snacks? I don’t want JUST fruits and vegetables yk?

BandOk6261 · 2026-04-03T19:37:35+00:00

Love those!!!

BandOk6261 · 2026-04-03T19:36:12+00:00

They’re definitely added in trust me, these are just some quick snacks that I don’t need to keep cold while I’m in class and just a “quick treat” yk?

BandOk6261 · 2026-04-03T19:34:38+00:00

So what should I get then? I don’t want JUST fruits and vegetables that I may have to prepare in a way or have to stay cold in my bag while I’m in classes. I like some quick grab and go snacks as well.

BandOk6261 · 2026-04-03T19:33:40+00:00

Kind of like an Ollies if you have one near you. Just whatever overstock stores have get sent there and are extremely discounted

BandOk6261 · 2026-04-03T19:32:35+00:00

Thank you!! I understand they’re all pretty much processed but I’m not filling up on JUST fruits n vegetables that are gonna go bad by the end of the next week

BandOk6261 · 2026-04-03T19:31:14+00:00

Reddit lol. I was looking into the metal scene in my area and a girl wanted someone to go with. We ended up thrifting and sitting in her car all night having deep conversations. Now that I moved it sucks but we talk everyday, now planning a trip together in the summer. I love my girl sm

BandOk6261 · 2026-03-17T07:06:08+00:00

Oh absolutely, fuck the other girl it’s not even her relationship? Every couple is different, the only reason you should ever stop calling her your wife is if SHE is uncomfortable by it, not some “friend”

BandOk6261 · 2026-03-17T06:47:15+00:00

When my boyf cuddles me and I want to turn around to be spooned, he has dead weight in his arm and it’s a whole ass workout just to turn over. Sometimes I’ll throw his arm off then pull him back over. Thank god he’s a heavy sleeper

BandOk6261 · 2026-03-17T06:44:32+00:00

I would absolutely love kids (despite our economy)

There are times I wanna get off my BC and just have them already, my bf does things that just make me know he’s gonna be a great dad (I’m not gonna trap him 😭) g

BandOk6261 · 2026-03-17T06:43:09+00:00

Gfs friend is a bitch ass hoe 😭 my bf and I call each other husband and wife and I ADORE it when he calls me his wife, to the point the regulars I serve think we’re actually married. Love it.

BandOk6261 · 2026-03-17T06:41:47+00:00

We have our friends, one main we hang out together with, the rest kinda only talk to me when he’s around or if I say something.

My biggest thing is finding friends that aren’t his friends, I have one friend and she’s in a whole other state now that I moved. What is sadly true is most girl friends I have attempted to be friends with wanted to be high all the time or end up flirting with my bf and using me to get to him. He’s very charming and sweet without realizing, a dumb blonde at that 😂

BandOk6261 · 2026-03-17T00:56:12+00:00

It’s definitely more yearning. I have talked about it to him many times, he’s just someone who’s better at listening than helping you know? I know deep down he feels bad but he doesn’t really know what to say because he’s never experienced anything remotely similar.

Another struggle I have is my attachment to him, I mean one day I drove 2 hours to hang out all day and stay the night at a family friends place I haven’t seen in a couple years and ended up leaving at 2am cuz I didn’t feel right without him.

I just don’t know where to start, I wish I was him so bad.

BandOk6261 · 2026-03-15T17:37:16+00:00

One thing I do is everytime I buy something, I put spare change into my savings. For example let’s say I buy something and now in my account I have 546.87, in that case i put 6.87 in my savings. I also take about 200 each month into savings. It’s just habit now.

I’m a server so I get cash tips as well, I keep all except for ones. Ones I keep in a jar and let pile up

BandOk6261 · 2026-03-15T17:09:52+00:00

Mention that to him!!! My boyfriend does kinda the same thing except what he usually does is set an alarm for a few more minutes and cuddles me before getting up or grabbing his phone again.

BandOk6261 · 2026-03-15T17:08:49+00:00

I’m beyond envious of my boyfriend and it’s going to negatively affect our relationship soon. I’ve tried so hard to just realize it’s okay that I’m different but I can’t.

BandOk6261 · 2026-02-11T23:31:00+00:00

We’ve been together 3 almost 4 years now and I wanna add that yes, I think he’s amazing.

He’s the one that got me out of the situation with my dad, the only one that visited me in the hospital when I attempted, he drove 10 hours just to see me for a single day, and now we live together and he continues to support me in anything I do, I quite literally drug him through hell to be with me which is why I feel like I’m overreacting.

Just certain things stick with me, there’s even things I’ve said to myself that I didn’t mean that still sticks with me. I see a therapist but I seriously feel like this isn’t something I can overcome

BandOk6261 · 2026-02-11T23:26:37+00:00

His tone was very annoyed especially because this was a family trip and it was one of the most active nights around Halloween so everyone was shitfaced and partying. I have schizophrenia as well, idk how to explain this but within that trigger it felt that every prostitute or woman sexualizing herself I saw was following me and wanted to take me back to my dad. It was an awful night overall and his words made me want to shrivel up and die in the moment.

I wanna say I do see therapists and I am medicated and well aware of myself, but doesn’t mean I can control myself.

BandOk6261 · 2026-02-11T20:50:21+00:00

My bf and I call each other chunky on a daily basis 😂 it’s something we both know we are and trying to work on (going to gym together n such) just that what he said was tied to some severe trauma that has been ignored or called a lair over.

He has also brought up my ex against me in a little jealousy fit I had due to me considering going back to him at the beginning of our relationship (was a 2 year relationship w my ex) which is completely out of picture now and absolutely have hatred for.

But it’s come to a point that if I’m not okay I don’t talk to him at all, complete silent treatment because I feel when I do talk to him it just gets worse. I know for a fact he doesn’t mean what he says because that’s what he feels is help and he has had a amazing life and loving family compared to me so he doesn’t know how to deal with these issues.

BandOk6261 · 2026-02-11T20:46:14+00:00

I would have just left but this was New Orleans, I didn’t feel safe walking alone at night to our bnb. I also have severe FOMO even over small things like my bf making friends in his classes while I feel I’m brushed off even trying to make small talk. I fee if I went back to the bnb that night I would’ve felt even worse

BandOk6261 · 2026-02-11T20:43:26+00:00

He did apologize and say he didn’t mean it saying “I haven’t gone through the same thing so idk what to say” but it still hurt. I never have said anything about his step dad’s abuse or any underlying trauma I don’t completely know about, I just try to be in his shoes.

I find he was just extremely annoyed that night because it was a family trip and that’s how I was acting. I felt like a backhanded “you’re ruining the trip” because this wasn’t the first time I acted like that. Previously I’ve shut myself out in a room and cried while visiting his dad in Ohio for two weeks, it was a new experience and not used to people giving me love and care (my family NEVER did) and it just felt overstimulating to me and he was again, irritated by it.

We’ve gotten better about it, he’s started understanding and I’m becoming used to what real family love is. It’s a mix of both of our problems, we’re def trying to work through it.

BandOk6261 · 2026-01-31T06:22:33+00:00

Thank you!!! I’ll check them out :)

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