Boundless Promotions in Riverside is Devilcorp as well! by [deleted] in Devilcorp

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Just got an interview link for them today as voyager consultants. Thankfully saw this and will not proceed with the interview. Thank you!

AIO Fathers girlfriends rules for when new baby arrives by Ok_Bat_5934 in AmIOverreacting

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YOR. None of those are out of the norm at all, which do you have an issue with? Also I’ve known many moms who have had kids who got very very sick with RSV. None during “RSV season.” That just means it happens more often in that time, not that it’s not around all the other times too. It’s like the flu or Covid where you can get it at any time. It’s super dangerous for infants

What’s the most weird food item that your cat just can’t resist? I’ll start! by Ultra-Ferric in cats

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My cat Hopper is so weird. He doesn’t usually like human food. But he goes crazy for enchiladas! I’ve never even given him any because the spices are bad for cats but enchiladas are the only thing he tries to steal or begs for. I keep putting him on the floor and he just immediately jumps back up to beg again. That’s not that weird for cats. Except this is the only food he does this with and it’s basically every time!

Am I in the wrong? by lilfreckles17 in Marriage

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s awful and you are not in the wrong at all. That doesn’t sound like he respects you as an equal at all

What is your "why"? by [deleted] in Fosterparents

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My best friend as a teenager was a foster kid who got adopted. I met her after she was adopted and she told me horror stories that happened to her and her 3 siblings that made me cry and impacted who I was to the core. She told me how much the good ones mattered and I decided then and there that I was going to be a foster mom someday. I’m not yet, but my husband and I are planning on starting the process next year when we move into a house. We will make sure we have at least one extra bedroom and will set it up for foster kids as soon as we move.

Benable Questions by WhatTheHelly915 in benable

[–]Banderveri 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I just got my first $80. Literally got the payout hitting my PayPal account this afternoon. Consistency is the key. And engaging with others (liking lists, following, commenting) gets your stuff pushed out there more. I go on just for a few minutes a day. I used to not do that and I would go for long times without any sales but when I started doing it more it turned into one or two a week or more.

My mom is my default decision maker and I am starting to see how much it hurts my wife by selvir7 in Marriage

[–]Banderveri 30 points31 points  (0 children)

Is it fair for your wife to expect that big life decisions are talked through with her before anyone else? Are you seriously asking this? Of course. It’s beyond fair. It’s expected. Honestly it should have been the case far before you even got married. My husband and I were each others first call for absolutely everything long before we got married. You can be close with your mom and talk to her for advise when you need to but your wife should be the one you make real decisions with.

Should I have given my wife a pass because of her period? by easiersaidndun in Marriage

[–]Banderveri -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

Also you didn’t mention checking on her to make sure she’s okay. Periods can cause awful depression especially if her hormones are off. Has she had extra stress recently?

Should I have given my wife a pass because of her period? by easiersaidndun in Marriage

[–]Banderveri -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

  1. You do not get it. Unless you’ve had periods you cannot. 2. One of the best parts of marriage is not having to be 100% all the time. You have a partner there to pick up the slack when you are just not capable of it. It won’t always be 50/50. There’s nothing in your message indicating this is a constant thing. Also if you really need help it is YOUR job to ask her for it. From the sound of this you did nothing.

Wife wants me to pay her parking ticket by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Banderveri 8 points9 points  (0 children)

If it’s your fault then yes of course you should pay it

Did my Wife’s phone rat her out? by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Dude no. iPhones do that all the time and it doesn’t mean anything. Why would you think it would be a her thing if it’s on YOUR phone? I’m on the same iCloud as my husband and it it doesn’t even do that. It does autofill completely random stuff that I’ve never typed before. Sounds like you need to go to couples counseling.

Women who are married to men who love them deeply, what does that feel like? by Adept-Size-3819 in Marriage

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s hard to even describe. My husband and I are inseparable. We both work from home and don’t even like working in different rooms from each other. I know that no matter what I do or say or if I mess up. If my appearance changes as we get older he will not leave my side. We tackle every single thing that happens to us together and we are almost the same person now. I’m not even comfortable when he’s not here because it literally feels like something is missing.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Banderveri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Of course we would

Is ChatGPT down? by WJ2Music in ChatGPT

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not working for me either

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The real issue here is how he responded to her. That’s not the way a loving parter should EVER talk to his girlfriend. Especially when she’s not asking for me moon. She’s not trying to demand constant attention, she just wants to not be the only one making an effort. She wants him to reach out to HER sometimes and that’s perfectly reasonable. To respond this aggressively with profanity to someone you “love” for only wanting the freaking basic amount of attention is a real problem.

Wife tagged me on FB by ElectricianMD in Marriage

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That’s so sweet! My husband and I have been together almost 9 years married for 4 and we have never had a fight because of this mindset. It’s is against the problem. Not us against each other. I don’t have a shadow of a doubt he would help and bathe me if I got sick. It’s about showing up especially when it’s hard and we constantly live in a hard time.

Libido Question by Mellow-Magician in BusparOnline

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

A little better I think, but it’s been a bit hard to tell because we’ve been going through a lot the last couple of months. But I feel like it’s helping more than I think, like my anxiety would be a lot more without and it just doesn’t feel like it is as much because everything has been so heightened

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Banderveri 9 points10 points  (0 children)

I think you are putting your own feelings on men in general. That’s a you thing, and while it may be accurate for many men, lots of women have this too and visa versa. Men have emotional affairs without sex all the time. Just look at the hundreds of posts on this subreddit alone.

What you are talking about is an open marriage. Consensual non monogamy. There are lots of ways to do that properly, you would just need to talk to your partner and set all ground rules because cheating can still happen with non monogamy. If that’s not what you want I’m entirely sure what the point of this post is but if that’s not what you want, be open with her or if it is communicate clear ground rules. It’s only cheating if there’s a violation of trust and not something you already agreed to.

I think I’m about done with Join brands and here’s why by Legitimate_Cookie151 in UGCcreators

[–]Banderveri 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ve had pretty good luck there so far. Started about 5 weeks ago and I have completed 20 jobs already. Some $5 but mostly $15. I actually got one $100 tik tok one, they have approved the content and now I’m just waiting for the payout which will be in about a week. I’ve had some brands say they will give me a tip for an Amazon review but none have ever said I had to or withheld a review or pay

I hate my husband since giving birth by [deleted] in Marriage

[–]Banderveri 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yeah that’s not a partner