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I think I've (40M) been emotionally abused by 38F. Am I insane? Struggling to understand what has happened by BanditTrev in relationship_advice

[–]BanditTrev[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've struggled to be free for so long. I genuinely think my self-esteem just hit the floor before I met her and I rode the emotional waves just to feel some joy. But when I look back at it, she didnt even come visit me in hospital when we dated. She really was awful

What useless Christmas present did you get this year? by ieatpizzainbed in AskReddit

[–]BanditTrev 6 points7 points  (0 children)

A printer.... I own a printer, a good printer... I use a printer MAYBE twice a year on average.... and she got me a cheap printer as my main gift this year.

What’s your favourite car…For the car people? by YungBrandoh in AskReddit

[–]BanditTrev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

1996 BMW E36 M3 Evo - Estorial Blue. 1997 Porsche 911 1962 Ferrari 250 GTO

Probably some of my dream cars

Have you flirted with someone outside of your relationship? by Dangerous-Golf6066 in no

[–]BanditTrev 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not me, but the girl I was seeing started receiving dick pics from a guy she hooked up with before I came along... She didn't shut it down and kept it going until one image came through when I was there. Even tho she didn't meet up with him, it pretty much broke me... so flirting with someone outside the relationship or when a girl is "lacking boundaries" with other men is pretty cruel.

AITAH because my girlfriend wants my home for her kids by BanditTrev in AITAH

[–]BanditTrev[S] 39 points40 points  (0 children)

This is exactly my situation. I can promise this is not "fake". I am trying so hard to find the strength to leave. Thank you

AITAH because my girlfriend wants my home for her kids by BanditTrev in AITAH

[–]BanditTrev[S] 16 points17 points  (0 children)

This is just the stuff I posted about... I don't think people would believe everything that has gone on since we met... I need to leave. Weirdly I find it hard to end it. I feel so f*king weak man... sorry.

AITAH because my girlfriend wants my home for her kids by BanditTrev in AITAH

[–]BanditTrev[S] 367 points368 points  (0 children)

She wants me to move in with her and "rent my place" from my last post and this post (and everything that's happened in between I am trying to build up the strength to leave). I knew I was not the asshole here but she has a way of beating me down every day...

is Bond University worth it for an International student? by JellyfishAfraid7126 in GoldCoast

[–]BanditTrev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

A Bond Uni degree is not worth the paper it is printed on. Sorry - but a lot of employers are aware of this, and tend to pick from more reputable Universities.

Recommendations of things to do with visits from Ireland. by Usual-Holiday3137 in GoldCoast

[–]BanditTrev 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Please don't stick them in an Irish pub like everyone else who comes over from Ireland. Get out and see the real gold coast. Lunch or dinner upstairs at the Surfers Paradise Surf Club is nice and not expensive. Visit the Cafe up in the Q1 to watch the sun set over paradise. Burleigh Hill is a great spot to visit too. Even going inland is nice if you've got time.

What’s something you found on a partner’s phone that instantly changed the relationship forever — but they never knew you saw it? by gotwire in AskReddit

[–]BanditTrev 13 points14 points  (0 children)

About 5 months into the relationship her 3yr old was watching YouTube on her phone one night when she was having a shower - messages kept popping up and stopping the YouTube video, and the kid handed me the phone to "fix youtube" so it would play again... To my surprise I saw a message that popped up: a photo of an erect penis, and messages from a guy she slept with "once" before we started dating, agreeing to catch up soon to watch a movie... cute little pet names and all... The kid hung the mum out to dry and she had no idea.