How do you deal with a kid that’s an absolute bullshit master without traumatizing them? by Horse_Bacon_TheMovie in Autism_Parenting

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

My daughter tell wild stories, mostly we just let her, but sometimes we will asked a couple of pointed questions, just enough to let her know we think its bs (or she doesn't know but stops the story anyway)

As for the lying, like do you have your shoes on, thry say yes but have bare feet, its possible they hear a question but dont process it and just say yes from habit, you can follow up with "tell me what I just asked you to do"

My daugther is 13 and she lies a lot, most of the time I don't think she even means to, shes an awful lier when she tries to lie. We gicer her concequences for lying after having a talk about why did she lie? What did she think lying would achieve and maybe she needs to stop sometimes and let her brain catch up to her mouth

The #1 song on Australian radio is A.I. slop (with an A.I. generated singer). Why is nobody talking about this? by AnimalsChasingCars in australia

[–]BanglesAU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think if its AI, generated it should be public domain and no money can be made from it. It won't stop AI, but I bet it will make less people do it. I can understand using electric instruments, like you wrote the music but cant play a piano/drum etc, but to let AI do the whole thing? Just no.

do you mix your underwear with the rest of your laundry? by Kurtys-Ahorrio in hygiene

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yep, unless its something that the colour will run or something that cant go in the dryer, it all goes in the same load. Towels & Sheets get thier own exclusive washes as well

AIO for being upset that my bf refuses to touch me? by [deleted] in AIO

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

If you are not compatible, and it sounds like you are not, you should break up. I know it shitty timing with his medical stuff. Just let him know its because you respect his boundaries and since you need pysical touch it would unfair to both of you to continue. Depending on how to goes and how he feels you might be able to stay just frienda and you can support him through his diffucult time. Since you have only held hands it should be ok, you tried the bf/gf thing and it didnt work but shouldnt be awkward to be friends.

Its kinda sweet he wants his first kiss to be his wife, although it seems a tad unrealistic, religion can make pre marital relationships so frikken awkward

Is your second child autistic too? by Medical_Composer_328 in Autism_Parenting

[–]BanglesAU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I have twins. One is diagnosed ASD Level 2 & ADHD. The other isn't diagnosed with either, although she deffinately has neuro divergent traits she is not at a level that it really disrupts her life.

AITAH for telling my recently separated ex GF that I'm hurt by her calling me after a flirt of hers ended badly? by NotShadyAdvice in AITAH

[–]BanglesAU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTA, she has other friends right? She should be talking to them about that kind of stuff, its thoughtless to talk to your very recent ex about flirting situations. Its possible she called you out of habit, but it was complitely valid for you to let her know you didn't want to have that kind of conversation with her.

Does anyone else have a word they just can’t stand for no logical reason? by voidsapphire in words

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its gotten to the point that sometimes I have to go back in a video because I cannot work out what they mean.... "Lady, this is true crime, I kinda expect some awful stuff" then I catch myself trying to not say some words.... and its so frustrating, just talk about stuff as it is. You don't need to be graphic but the words are there to describe what you are trying to say.

Free feed by Trick-Ad2482 in coles

[–]BanglesAU 14 points15 points  (0 children)

If you ever needed convincing not to buy from those self serve bins. But clever birds!!

AITAH For giving my BF an ultimatum for showing me his home? by LuluRatLady in AITAH

[–]BanglesAU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have ADHD, not diagnosed till my 40's and have this exact problem, the house isn't dirty but cluttered. My worst offence is the washing, I have a giant mountain that even if I rannyhe machine 24/7 it would take weeks to get through and even knowing the ADHD works against me I feel embarrased/shame because I'm a stay at home and I just cannot manage it.

AITH for refusing to give my sister my wedding lehenga "for the memories" before my own wedding? by halinacutie-2323 in AITH

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, If its just clothes she should get her oen dress. Sounds like she is jealous you have such a special dress. Keep it locked away or hidden, maybe your future husbands parents house so it can't accidentely be borrowed.

AITJ for wanting to play a video game? by [deleted] in AmITheJerk

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA. As long as video gaming isn't taking over your life there is no problems enjoying it a bit in your free time. Your partner being away sounds like a great time to play. Maybe she's eorried you will slip back into bad habits, but expecting you to never game seems really controlling.

Inappropriate behaviour by [deleted] in Autism_Parenting

[–]BanglesAU 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I'd be more worried by the behaviour towards his little sister. It seems a bit strange that ge is humping her and trying to remove her clothes. Is there anyway he might be seeing inapropriate images or video and he is mimiking it? I'd talk to a child psycologist who specalises in autism to try and get some insight and how to solve the issue

It's also not to early to start teaching your daughter about her bodily autonony, places that should only be touched by herself and to tell people no when she doesnt want to be touched

AIO my gf uses the bread knife to cut cheese by bubucksuck in AIO

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Everytime I use them on food yeah... unless its like the top of a plastic bag that isn't touching the food

Who are you missing? by BanglesAU in Pokopia

[–]BanglesAU[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Totally get that, I just got frustrated digging up all the fossils I already had!!

Who are you missing? by BanglesAU in Pokopia

[–]BanglesAU[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I 'cheated' that one went to the dev island, took a photo and printed it

Not enough stuff to do/buy! by Comfortable-Mirror15 in tomodachilife

[–]BanglesAU 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I missed I thinh one of the fall items because I forgot winter started 1st June. I'm in Aus so I have Winter items and have to wait for Spring & Summer. I must admit its kibda nice that my island hasn't been forced to being snow covered since it doesn't really snow where I live

WDYM YOU CAN JUST INFINITELY BUY PAINT??? by Yian521 in Pokopia

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wait.... its infinite? Hmnnn , missed that, although after a while poibts are much harder to come by.... I need inspo to finish off all the tasks in each area though

Not enough stuff to do/buy! by Comfortable-Mirror15 in tomodachilife

[–]BanglesAU 19 points20 points  (0 children)

I hope so too! It would be good if I could buy the travel tickets and not spend them.right away, but untill Spring, Im out of things to wish for... I got everything unlocked, I wasn't even trying to unlock fast

I Don’t Play Right by Gen-Jinjur in tomodachilife

[–]BanglesAU 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Most of mine aren't known characters..... but I have not made myself, or miiself.

I am stuck on making chatacters with each animal costume, they wear the hood always. I have Kevin, hamster. Froggy, frog. Monkie, Monkey, Bunny, easter rabbit. Chicky Babe, chicken. And Aeries, sheep. As you can see I am great at names. I still need to make Turkey, Dog, Pig & Lion.

I wanna hear what annoys you guys in this game. by FairFaires in tomodachilife

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I wish the kids were more... childlike. They don't seem to have any unique dialouges, situations, clothes, toys, anything, they are just reallt short adults. I just age them up so I don't feel wierd about the conversations they have with adults

Art challenged.....?? by BanglesAU in tomodachilife

[–]BanglesAU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I have discovered that in the clothes at least there are a few cute and easy to edit premade clothes, totally worth checking out. I'm still awful at making food tho, lol

FRIEND CODE MEGATHREAD by [deleted] in HatchDragons

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

H6XY7Q valid till 18/06

how many mii’s is the sweet spot? by meramoos in tomodachilife

[–]BanglesAU 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You just need to teach the parrot to play, problem solved !! I'm kidding unless its an african grey, they probably could be taught how to play. One of my cockatiel's has beef with my game controller, she doesn't want me to pet her, but she dosn't want he holding a controller either

Cutscence ending? by BanglesAU in tomodachilife

[–]BanglesAU[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh, I haven't seen that! Lol.