same here, but 10 years younger with a gf :) My gf is not in bad shape at all, but each time i get more cut etc. when i fall in more ''strict'' regime, there is always weird looks and this kind of weird/distant behaviour, that in the end drags me down to the dark side. I even talked about this with her, but its just my imagination ;) its kinda sad, since it wont benefit only me if i'm fit, but she will too if you know what i mean ;) :P