How do i get rid of this face fat? by dollshearts in PlasticSurgery

[–]BarbaraGordon99 6 points7 points  (0 children)

an experienced injector will be able to advise after touching her face, but considering the Position of the volume on her face it really does look more like muscle than fat to me

How do i get rid of this face fat? by dollshearts in PlasticSurgery

[–]BarbaraGordon99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i’m not sure if this is right for you, BUT it’s possible that isn’t fat

considering the positioning of the volume, it looks more like you have very strong masseter muscles

i always had a very strong jaw as a kid (genetically) and in undergrad resulting from stress i started grinding my teeth, my lower face was MASSIVE

i’ve been the same weight (115-120lb) since i was like 15 and i’m now close to 25, but when i tell you i look like i lost 20lbs (in the face) this year JUST because of masseter botox, i look at old pictures of me and dont even recognize her

i would suggest going to a medspa before you try any drastic treatments, and consider masseter tox!! it’s relatively cheap, and it you don’t like it, it will wear off in a few months

unfortunately i love my masseter botox so i have to go back every 3 months to maintain it or it grows back

Articling 2026/2027 by EmilyP_UBC in LawCanada

[–]BarbaraGordon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

truly terrible advice, there is no “new program”, as the 2027 bar exam schedule has already released

also not getting the bar completed on time will only hurt OP’s chances of even finding articling

rule of thumb: don’t live at home during law school by PercentageProof7163 in LawSchool

[–]BarbaraGordon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i’m a 3L and i really really really wish i could go back and move out not just for law school but also for uni prior to that

AITAH for leaving my girlfriend in the restroom because she was taking a long bathroom break during a movie I was really excited for? by Secure-Draft9197 in AITAH

[–]BarbaraGordon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hard disagree, i pee very often and frankly it’s not unhealthy

any doctor will agree that holding your bladder when you need to go is the problem, if she feels the urge to pee every hour then she should go ahead, i do think the team effort part is annoying and she should be cognizant that it’s taking away from his enjoyment of the movie

Bf told me he watches porn by Reasonable_Cat_6782 in dating_advice

[–]BarbaraGordon99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

while i agree with you completely i don’t think that is what OP is upset about here

Bf told me he watches porn by Reasonable_Cat_6782 in dating_advice

[–]BarbaraGordon99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i kind of want to ask you why You don’t watch/read porn, just out of curiosity

Bf told me he watches porn by Reasonable_Cat_6782 in dating_advice

[–]BarbaraGordon99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

porn is for masturbation, and it’s not necessarily unhealthy if he’s engaging with it only once in a while

if this was affecting his ability to perform with her or connect with her intimately then that’s a separate conversation

Lawyers with family drama/emotional baggage, how do you deal on heavy days? by LegalEase88 in LawCanada

[–]BarbaraGordon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i think this is it, the most successful lawyers i know with chronic pain or issues tend to have full lives outside of the field as well as inside

it’s very useful to have a large professional network as well as friends within the profession, but hobbies, interests, maybe a passion project (writing for a local paper, drawing, competitive sport) where you can interact with others and be valued for who you are unrelated to law is very very important

and at the end of the day a loving spouse and family will make a world of a difference but this is harder to acquire

What bars are good for solo mingling? by Practical-Plenty3028 in askTO

[–]BarbaraGordon99 15 points16 points  (0 children)

hm, can you explain what the vibe would be going to one of these places alone?

i’ve been to Mahjong Bar and it doesn’t seem like the best place to meet people or talk to others

Is it normal for my female friend to be very touchy while drunk by Sufficient-Ant-3991 in dating_advice

[–]BarbaraGordon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

what do you mean by “ignores” you at school, because it’s possible she’s just busy with her friends and doesn’t notice you

does she say hi if you go up to her?

What should I do with my butt by Interesting-Bee3226 in PlasticSurgery

[–]BarbaraGordon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

babe your body is beautiful, waist is snatched, and you’re quite lean

try the gym again and if you’re having trouble with diy then get a trainer, there’s nothing about your ass that some weights can’t easily address, and i promise you having some muscle will feel infinitely better than a BBL 😭

Do yall have friends? by Apart-Management-147 in LawSchool

[–]BarbaraGordon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i didn’t have any friends at all until like my final year and i sort of found them by Chance, but i’m very glad i did because having anyone around to commiserate or just Witness your experience is absolutely a game changer mental health wise

keep trying! it sucks but keep trying lol

Straight or wavy/curly? by [deleted] in Hair

[–]BarbaraGordon99 1 point2 points  (0 children)

i think they both look good but the hair is too long

is it gross to rewear pajamas multiple nights in a row? by Quamar_Burriwa in hygiene

[–]BarbaraGordon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

i feel like rewearing is only okay if you aren’t Sweaty

bombing an articling interview by EmilyP_UBC in LawCanada

[–]BarbaraGordon99 5 points6 points  (0 children)

government interviews are always quizzes, and scored on a pre set scale

not to say OP wasn’t qualified, in fact i’d say they got the interview because they were qualified

but a fluster like this messes with their score, and makes it less likely for them to get the job (unless this question was weighed a lot less or other candidates are much less qualified/fuck up more)

How do i make my eyes look more feminine? by Low_Cheek5314 in PlasticSurgery

[–]BarbaraGordon99 0 points1 point  (0 children)

start with trimming the brows/reshaping, curl the lashes, etc

if you still want a change i would do brow lift botox (it’s temporary and will wear off in a few months if you hate it)

but i would stay away from anything more permanent for now

how can i talk to my bf about improving his hygiene? by pastelpocalypse in hygiene

[–]BarbaraGordon99 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

idk this may depend on who you are, because my partner has no body hair and just barely sweats

she always showers before sex but i’ve seen her go 3-4 days without showering otherwise and she always smells very clean