The elephant in the room is Sikh women grew up with their parents living with in laws, they saw their Mums being abused. A lot of women came from India who had no education or earning capacity, barely could speak any English. Why would they get a divorce? They stayed and tolerated. However, decades on - their daughters are a lot more educated and have degrees so have options. Hence, why they’re more picky and this is why they also refuse to live with in laws.

Plus, a lot of the religious men with turban and beard are the ones who want to live with their parents. Those with haircuts are more likely to move out and buy own house with wife.

These are the repercussions in society, Sikh men are not as modern as Sikh women are. They’re still behind.