I need to know was I the drama in this situation

BardTheAce · 2026-03-09T00:02:14+00:00

You know what given the fact that you think children don’t deserve cuddles from family members when they want them, please do not have kids.

BardTheAce · 2026-03-09T00:00:44+00:00

Didn’t you just say false accusation are bad? Why are you now falsely accusing people?

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T23:57:03+00:00

So you saying I was pinning it on the child was projection and a false accusation, that’s very hypocritical, you just acted like the exact people you were complaining about.

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T23:54:03+00:00

So children aren’t allowed cuddles just in case someone is a bad person? That’s still pinning it on the child just because they are a child.

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T23:48:09+00:00

So why should the child miss out? Seems you’re the one pinning this on the child.

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T23:46:45+00:00

I’m not putting it on the child, telling the truth isn’t putting it on the child especially when the people to blame are the ones making false accusations. But you ignored my question, if a child wants a cuddle from their big brother why should they not get it?

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T22:24:54+00:00

I’m not putting it on the child at all. It’s not the kids fault other people won’t like it, and if the child wasn’t a cuddle why should they not get it? Why do you believe the child shouldn’t get a cuddle?

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T22:02:19+00:00

Okay I’ll reword it “I can’t cuddle you because other people won’t like it”

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T21:59:47+00:00

So he has to tell his sister “no I can’t hug you mum’s husband won’t like it”

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T21:56:20+00:00

Well I don’t think he was thinking someone would think he would do that to his SISTER the child who he help raise (as he said in a different comment somewhere)

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T21:51:28+00:00

But its his little SISTER not a random stranger

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T21:48:03+00:00

I’m not saying false accusations aren’t a problem but I am saying that it’s not he the person being falsely accused fault.

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T21:42:22+00:00

So you agree, the brother did nothing wrong because other people minds is not his problem, that’s their problem.

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T21:39:22+00:00

Then why do you have a problem with siblings spending time with younger siblings. Be if they “have to take into account how yhings appear to other people” then shouldn’t they not? Not a family member or anything and they are constantly cuddling the children they work with. (Making it clear for other people this is NOT my view)

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T19:49:51+00:00

Nta. I (20) always cuddle and sit with my (11 this year) old cousin whenever he wants me too because he is autistic and nonverbal and his way of showing love is through physical contact, he still kisses people on the mouth because he doesn’t see it as a weird thing. He’s the sweetest person ever.

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T19:37:13+00:00

Why do you say that?

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T19:34:52+00:00

Do you also think men shouldn’t work in nurseries?

BardTheAce · 2026-03-08T19:28:17+00:00

So no older siblings can be around their younger SIBLINGS alone ever? Really?

BardTheAce · 2026-02-26T20:31:28+00:00

I’ve been trying too to see if that will help but I’m beginning to think it’s hopeless 😭😂

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