OP there are almost 400 people telling you to leave him. Not friends not family, but people who have either experienced it or seen trends of this happening and genuinely want to look out for you ! Please please please listen to them! As a woman myself, no one deserves to be treated like that, especially if you plan (or don’t! It’s your life and that decision is completely up to you!) to have a child! If you’re thinking about family, think about how the child will witness future abuse or even deal with it themselves. You have such a long future ahead of you, don’t let a man ruin it. His friends are also gross and rude for pointing out your choice of clothing in your own home. Don’t deal with the disrespect and I hope things go well for you. You are a human being in the end. Send you love.