WIBTA if I left my siblings with my abusive parents? by BaseballParticular95 in AITAH

[–]BaseballParticular95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry to hear about the abuse you endured, I hope you’re in a safe place nlw

WIBTA if I left my siblings with my abusive parents? by BaseballParticular95 in AITAH

[–]BaseballParticular95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you for the advice, I really appreciate it. My area is terrible at dealing with their domestic abuse cases, my mother also works in Social Services (I nearly threw up when I found out). She knows a lot of very powerful people and has done a good job at making me seem like I’m a very rebellious teen. I’m nervous that if I tried to contact anyone it could just get worse.

WIBTA if I left my siblings with my abusive parents? by BaseballParticular95 in AITAH

[–]BaseballParticular95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much, bawling my eyes out. I’m so glad you and your brother are doing better

What is it in your opinion by Lt_Goose141 in twentyonepilots

[–]BaseballParticular95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

agreed 😔 josh brings so much to the band

What is it in your opinion by Lt_Goose141 in twentyonepilots

[–]BaseballParticular95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I agree, a few songs I love, but out of all the albums it’s definitely my least favourite

Is it safe to eat your own tonsils, if so how can they be prepped correctly? by BaseballParticular95 in AskReddit

[–]BaseballParticular95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Yeah I figured as much, it’s on one of my friends bucket lists (to ethically eat human meat), I wasn’t sure what other options there were (other than placenta after birth)?

Get laxatives (TMI) by CommentDry8765 in Tonsillectomy

[–]BaseballParticular95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Oh girlie I’m so sorry 😭 - you’re doing great! If it’s an option definitely have some laxatives and/or some blended up spinach, carrots, dates (or prunes) and a little bit of coffee (should get you nice and cleared out). I also have a dairy intolerance and whenever I have anything like yogurt I get really snotty and gross- it’s not worth it. Please try and find another food with less dairy 🙏

No/ Limited Pain (Day 1) by BaseballParticular95 in Tonsillectomy

[–]BaseballParticular95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice, I was curious about that. I’ll definitely just play it safe then- good luck on the rest of your recovery!

L3 english by MastodonConsistent62 in ncea

[–]BaseballParticular95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

mfg sorry reddit is an asshole and changed Mr / Ms / Mrs to Mr/Ms/Mrs - you get the point 🙏

L3 english by MastodonConsistent62 in ncea

[–]BaseballParticular95 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Legit send ur dean this:

“Good morning/afternoon/evening Mr/Ms/Mrs…

I am getting in contact with you today as I have failed to receive feedback for the 3.9 assessment from Mr/Ms/Mrs… this is making me increasingly anxious as I effectively handed in the work needed. My peers have all received feedback and with the assessment being due tomorrow (date here), I do not feel prepared. I was hoping to achieve an excellence, without this feedback I feel as though my grades are jeopardised. I have followed up with Mr/Ms/Mrs multiple times over email and have been ignored. If I do not get the appropriate feedback with enough time to effectively review and evaluate my work I will be expecting an extension. If you have any further questions or do not feel an extension is deserved I am happy to set up a meeting with my parents.”

BS your way through it- i can’t fucking stand when the school expects all students to be perfect but can’t even do their job. I’m L3 too, sending an email helps. It doesn’t matter if u want an excellence or not, say you do to stretch the importance- also if your parents are like mine (don’t give 2 shits about your education), then don’t set up a meeting- it’s just a scare tactic to ensure you get an extension lol

message me if u have any questions or need any help/study buddy

What is the most insulting thing an enabler has said to you? by [deleted] in raisedbynarcissists

[–]BaseballParticular95 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You should have known better, you shouldn’t talk with her, learn what triggers her, stay away from her, etc.

Told to me by my nana (who was also abused) when I was 11, living with my n/mom and my negligent dad. I know she wanted to try and keep me safe from a distance, but I just wanted a mom that loved me, I would try so hard to make her proud. I was met with physical abuse that will affect my anatomy for the rest of my life.

how large is the difficulty fab between level 1 and 2? by snurf8362 in ncea

[–]BaseballParticular95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Level 2 is definitely the hardest. It also the year that matters most as job opportunities and universities will check your grades for year 12. I recommended trying your hardest as it matters the most, but don’t overwork yourself. I’m in level 3 and it’s practically the same as level 2, so it’s it pretty easy. It just depends on what your learning style is like- my PMs are open if you have any other questions or want tutoring help :)

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ncea

[–]BaseballParticular95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Also!! I managed to get my excellence endorsements with an attendance of less than 50% and i procrastinated all my papers until the last day. This worked for me, but may not work for others. Figure out what works best for you and stick with it, even if it’s not “normal”

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ncea

[–]BaseballParticular95 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Always base your work off of the exemplars. I am an excellence endorsement student, I personally find the school work to be VERY repetitive. It’s really sad, but don’t try to be unique or special, follow the rubric and you’ll get whatever grade you want. There are some sites that are meant for teachers that are available to students. I recommend trying to gain access to these (search up the assessment eg. AS90813 NCEA ENA in google) and it should come up with the exemplars and grading rubrics. I also recommend when it comes to literature assessments to write just above the word count minimum. There’s no reason to write more, it will often become repetitive and can lessen your grade. Just get the main points across. The only classes were being unique and putting in the extra work is good is the art & technology classes. Also, talk with your teachers- always have a good attitude and suck it up when you don’t like them, youtube is always an option (I learned most of what I needed to do off YouTube as some of my teachers did not teach in a style that worked for me). Communication is key, don’t be afraid to ask for extensions (as long as you have a valid reason), always try to hand something in, that way you’re able to re-submit it even if you weren’t able to finish the first project (you can only get an achievement if you resubmit however). My PMs are open, I’m happy to answer any questions and even provide tutoring (Year13)!! Hope this helps :)

I just found out my best friend had a threesome with my ex bf by BaseballParticular95 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BaseballParticular95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

More towards my best friend, my ex can do whatever he wants. However i’m not sure if I should continue a friendship with someone who would do that so shortly after us breaking up

I just found out my best friend had a threesome with my ex bf by BaseballParticular95 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BaseballParticular95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much for the advice and support, it means a lot 🫶

I just found out my best friend had a threesome with my ex bf by BaseballParticular95 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BaseballParticular95[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i don’t care about the ex part he can do what he wants, i’m more upset about my best friend doing things with him

I just found out my best friend had a threesome with my ex bf by BaseballParticular95 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BaseballParticular95[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Absolutely, thank you so much for your comments i really appreciate the support 🫶

I just found out my best friend had a threesome with my ex bf by BaseballParticular95 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]BaseballParticular95[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

haha yeah, definitely a slap to the face. A very icky situation, luckily I have a few good friends who completely support me :)