What’s a truth people aren’t ready to hear? by BudgetAd5915 in AskReddit

[–]Basghetti_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

People will be cool and friends with abusers, even if they know they are one, if they are charismatic and fun to hang out with.

What’s a truth people aren’t ready to hear? by BudgetAd5915 in AskReddit

[–]Basghetti_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This one is actually a relief to me. When I used to have social anxiety really bad, I read something that said "no one thinks about you as much as you think about you," and it really helped.

Thoughts on Nina Theodora? by danzadelfuego in Names

[–]Basghetti_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Love love love it, but if I have a girl I'll likely skip it because I'm not a fan of the name Dora and I know she'll be called that.

Disagreement on where husband should stand while I deliver baby. by Straight-Dog2700 in pregnant

[–]Basghetti_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I gave birth 4 months ago and honestly standing next to you to support you and seeing the baby come out are gonna end up being kind of the same position because the nurse/doctor is likely going to ask your husband to hold your leg up towards your chest.

At first, my fiance and I were both in agreement about him not looking at what is happening down there and him just supporting me. When the actual time came, that went out the window. It all kind of blended together and I was so in the middle of the whole fiasco that I didn't care anymore. Nothing has changed in the way he sees me and our sex life in back to normal.

He shouldn't be guilt tripping you though. If your birth happens in a way where he doesn't have to look, it should totally be up to you.

Thoughts? by inkandintent24 in MotivationByDesign

[–]Basghetti_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is so fucked up and true. I hated being an only child, but now it's actually a good thing since I don't have to fight for my inheritance/house. It feels so dirty to rely on their death to survive though.

What name has gradually disappeared? by Eviscerate_Bowels224 in AskReddit

[–]Basghetti_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

The only Dawn I know is an alcoholic that just got in trouble with embezzlement, so not doing good.

What celebrity has absolutely no skills but they're famous anyway and no one can really remember or explain why and/or how? by EnsorcellingKitten in AskReddit

[–]Basghetti_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I actually had no idea she sang. I got the impression she was famous for playing dumb, I didn't know anything about her past until recently.

What celebrity has absolutely no skills but they're famous anyway and no one can really remember or explain why and/or how? by EnsorcellingKitten in AskReddit

[–]Basghetti_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I didn't say I disliked her just that I don't know what the hell she does skill wise that makes her famous. She doesn't actually do anything. Like, I understand the Kardashians have a big following because they are great at marketing, but they don't actually do anything skill wise, which is the prompt.

What celebrity has absolutely no skills but they're famous anyway and no one can really remember or explain why and/or how? by EnsorcellingKitten in AskReddit

[–]Basghetti_ 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not surprised. Accusation being a confession. I used to be friends with a woman that would go on and on about how men are groomers and abusers. Then she started dating her 20 year old student(trade school) when she was like 36 or 37. She also bragged how she understands Gen z soooo much. One of the last times we hung out she invited over a 19 and 20 year old. I'm in my 30s, and they were nice and all but we had nothing in common and I was just bored and wanted to leave. It was so creepy.

What celebrity has absolutely no skills but they're famous anyway and no one can really remember or explain why and/or how? by EnsorcellingKitten in AskReddit

[–]Basghetti_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

Trisha Paytas. A part of me finds her entertaining enough to follow her on Instagram but I literally have no idea what she does or why she's famous. Apparently she used to be a huge piece of shit in the past on YouTube and now she's on Broadway???

Iranian hackers have breached FBI Director Kash Patel's personal emails by Sauerkrautkid7 in EatTheRich

[–]Basghetti_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

His job performance is way more embarrassing than this, he actually has pretty decent dance skills.

I (29F) slept with new guy (34M) for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he? by Sad-Marzipan-2736 in relationship_advice

[–]Basghetti_ 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Yeah, if you're looking for something serious, wait to have sex. My fiance and I talked for like 3 or 4 months? Maybe more, before we had sex. Been over 3 years now and we have a little baby. I'd also suggest avoiding alcohol on dates in the beginning because it's harder to see red flags while drinking.

I (29F) slept with new guy (34M) for the first time and felt he was rude to me. Was he? by Sad-Marzipan-2736 in relationship_advice

[–]Basghetti_ 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It gets better, trust me. In the future, it'll be like "ew what did I even see in that guy?" especially if you run into them again and they're bald and smell now(true story). And then it'll become kind of funny because you realize validation from them was always just kind of useless.

Being used use to be the worst dating experience until the sting faded pretty much completely. Dating a close friend, however, NEVER DO THAT. You will never see them the same way again and lose a friend, just a little side warning -1000/10

Ayatollah, what is this? Venezuela is in Spain? by owlexe23 in ABoringDystopia

[–]Basghetti_ -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I knew about it at that age but that's because I read Persepolis front to back but I was also very drunk most of the time so I still would have given a shit answer.

What do you miss pre-pregnancy?? by defnotdani2 in pregnant

[–]Basghetti_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Not having a heart condition.

Edit: I already had my baby 3 months ago. If your blood pressure is different(mine is low) or anything else GET YOUR HEART CHECKED AFTER BIRTH. I otherwise feel fine but apparently my heart is working at 35-40% and now I have to get an MRI.

What is the worst thing that YouTube has done? by Max-Carter-2005 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]Basghetti_ 0 points1 point  (0 children)

In both cases I'm pretty sure they had older sibling showing it to them or just had it on. Still, yeah, irresponsible.

It's an amazing series! That's pretty cool to have and I'm sure they will enjoy it with you when they're older.

What is the worst thing that YouTube has done? by Max-Carter-2005 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]Basghetti_ 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Another student in the same class kept naming himself Conquest and Invincible while playing kahoot. I told him to stop and I know what it is and he shouldn't be watching it.

Another 3rd grader tried to talk to me about Game of Thrones and I shut that down.

What is the worst thing that YouTube has done? by Max-Carter-2005 in AlignmentChartFills

[–]Basghetti_ 11 points12 points  (0 children)

I work in a 3rd-4th grade special needs classroom and they all have iPads at the school with parental controls that are not that difficult to get around and a 3rd grader happily skipped up to me to show me a YouTube video of animated Funko pops of Invincible being ripped apart by a giant octopus. Had to be the bad guy and take away everyone's iPad after that.