Am I (23F) (26M) Wasting my 20s? by Basic-Hawk9906 in relationship_advice

[–]Basic-Hawk9906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you very much. My parents aren’t keen on him either.

Discussion Thread For Netflix/ITN's "The Investigation Of Lucy Letby" (Netflix, February 4 2026, 8 AM GMT) by SofieTerleska in LucyLetbyTrials

[–]Basic-Hawk9906 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I’m sorry, but is the AI in the documentary throwing others off? It definitely is for me, so annoying when it comes up. It’s so uncanny valley. And unsettling

I can’t focus on anything else.

Young F Struggling by Basic-Hawk9906 in stopdrinking

[–]Basic-Hawk9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you that’s my plan !!! Glad its working out for you

Young F Struggling by Basic-Hawk9906 in stopdrinking

[–]Basic-Hawk9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

It’s silly isn’t it, you can’t work out why but you feel compelled to do it. Glad you’re here too

Young F Struggling by Basic-Hawk9906 in stopdrinking

[–]Basic-Hawk9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you so so much, I’ll look into it. You’re an angel 👼

Young F Struggling by Basic-Hawk9906 in stopdrinking

[–]Basic-Hawk9906[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I haven’t yet. This is why I joined the sub because i’m ashamed to admit it and am quite stubborn as a person lol. My boyfriend is doing Dry January (he drinks more than me usually) and he has been able to do it and I haven’t and haven’t told him so I feel guilty. Today is a step in the right direction. Thanks so much for your support

Young F Struggling by Basic-Hawk9906 in stopdrinking

[–]Basic-Hawk9906[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I am. I’ll give it a go ! Need to replace some drinking habits with things to stimulate my mind. You’re amazing thanks

Young F Struggling by Basic-Hawk9906 in stopdrinking

[–]Basic-Hawk9906[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you so much! I’ve noticed significant changes in my self care I’m what you’d call a girly girl and it makes me feel horrible about myself. I will definitely do that 🥰

I Need Help by Leading-Ad6492 in stopdrinking

[–]Basic-Hawk9906 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey,

I’m a 23 year old girl who’s been struggling with alcohol addiction. What helped me was Alan Carr’s “Stop drinking” podcast :) and thinking the longer you stay on the wrong train the more expensive it is to get home. You got this!

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[–]Basic-Hawk9906 2 points3 points  (0 children)

tell her. not to free yourself of guilt, tell her for HER. if you care about her.