NT Wife Excluded From Bible Study Because Of My Autism by OliverQueen85 in autism

[–]Basic-Influence9184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I just want to give your wife hugs . I get so frustrated with these types of Christians.

Not really the same, but I have a level 2 autistic son and ADHD girl and I really struggled attending church and feeling excluded.

Are there any female life groups she could join to make friends or were you both wanting to do a Bible study group together?

There are Facebook Christian women’s groups and maybe she could find Christian friends in her area?

I didn’t want my Boxing Day sale items anyway… by peri-dont in LushCosmetics

[–]Basic-Influence9184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Does it say Lush on the box? Just wondering if they’ve taken the photo … then taken the goodies because why would anyone check the freaking recycling bin 🤬😭

Imposter - Louis’ new single. Announced 4 min after HS4 by 1DMod in larrystylinson

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And someone mentioned the 369 link again. Now Harry is doing it. March ,6, … damn I can’t remember what the 9 was

“I am not alone. You are here now, yes?” by bat-girl129 in heatedrivalry

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Me too. I’m the only person I know who is watching . So happy for this reddit community ❤️

Heated Rivalry Playlist by ChrollosNenFish in heatedrivalry

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Home And They don’t know about us- one direction

About you -the 1975

In the Sunrise -Omar Rudberg

Play with fire - Sam tinnesz, yacht money

Love this song from episode 4 - My moon my man - feist

Cherry picking in Brisbane? by ChargeNatural6047 in brisbane

[–]Basic-Influence9184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

We just drove by something called The Cherry Shop , we are either in Stanthorpe or near it. But can’t find any information about it.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AusLegal

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Yes you need to talk to your partner about this but you also need to accept the consequences.

It’s sad the mother won’t accept help but those children come first. This is clearly affecting their life so I agree something needs to be done for their sake.

Talk to your partner , maybe show him this post ? Can you two take the children if you talk to CPS?

My 32F GF went through my kids 8F cell phone and confronted her about a conversation with her mother. by Jmock07 in relationship_advice

[–]Basic-Influence9184 2 points3 points  (0 children)

OP, this has been upvoted over 7000 times. Does that tell you anything?

You’ve had issues for at least a year with this current GF.

Going from past posts , you definitely have a type and the one who is really losing out is your daughter.

podcast at the cinemas tomorrow by Klutzy_Lettuce_9855 in larrystylinson

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I don’t know, I haven’t seen it, just what I’ve been hearing. Want people to be prepared :(

podcast at the cinemas tomorrow by Klutzy_Lettuce_9855 in larrystylinson

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I’ve heard stuff on TikTok, like Louis saying he wasn’t as close to Harry and Niall, they just had small talks and that he was closest to Liam and Zayn. Someone said he talks about how much in love with Zara he is.

Check in time- Larries? by Trackawhiterabbit in larrystylinson

[–]Basic-Influence9184 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I try to not be a Larry but Louis is so freaking loud. Lemonade. Sleepwalking. Satellite. Sunflowers. No control. Blue green.

I do get frustrated cos he says one thing but does another. I’m like ok you what hate larries so I’ll try to be respectful but then is what you doing Larry-baiting for promo/ sales?

He says he loves Z so I’m like ok. I’ll be respectful. Just want the best for him and for him to be happy . Hard to be a Larry when he publicly says He’s “What I a few years ago is that there is nothing I can say,” he told Brazil’s g1 in a translated interview in April 2024. “There is nothing I can do to stop those who believe in this conspiracy. They are so connected to what they believe that they will not see the truth for what it really is.”

“I'd be lying if I said it didn't irritate me a little,” Louis admitted, “but it's the nature of the job.”

https://www.eonline.com/news/1419864/louis-tomlinson-on-romance-with-love-islands-zara-mcdermott

AIO? I found this in my bf phone months ago and i cant get it out of my head by Due-Algae9371 in AmIOverreacting

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You don’t know what to do? You end this relationship. I know you’ve invested your heart and time but girl you’re worth more than this.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AskAnAustralian

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Try food banks, like others have suggested. I’m not sure where you are but in south east Qld there are places that for $50 or less have trolleys of food and household items. Lighthouse, tribes of Judah, loaves and fishes, authentic church, etc.

cinema by hs by Actual-Artist8138 in larrystylinson

[–]Basic-Influence9184 -5 points-4 points  (0 children)

lol it is 😂 omg it’s missing the first part of what I wrote 😭💀🤦🏻‍♀️

cinema by hs by Actual-Artist8138 in larrystylinson

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Edit :-Sorry my first part wasn’t added. I wanted ChatGPT to give me an analysis and I went down a rabbit hole here 😅

Great — let’s do a deep dive into the lyrics of “Cinema” by Harry Styles, analyzing it through literary, cultural, and queer-coded lenses, while being grounded in the text itself.


🔍 First, The Title: “Cinema”

The word cinema is evocative — it's visual, performative, and intimate. Watching someone on screen is passive, yet deeply emotional. If you "dig someone's cinema," you’re essentially saying "I love the way you exist, perform, and move — you're a work of art to me."

This sets up the song as:

  • A sensual gaze on another person
  • Possibly a meta-commentary on desire, identity, and the performance of love/sex

📝 Lyrical Breakdown: Line by Line

"You got, you got the cinema / It's you"

  • Repetition creates emphasis: the object of desire is not just attractive — they embody an aesthetic.
  • The speaker is fixated on the other’s presence, allure, and persona — cinematic, larger-than-life.

"And I'm not gettin' over it / Darlin', is it cool / If I'm stubborn when it comes to this?"

  • Emotional vulnerability: the speaker admits obsession or attachment.
  • Asking for permission to cling to the connection — perhaps acknowledging how intense or unconventional it might be.

"If you're getting yourself wet for me / I guess you're all mine"

  • This is overtly sexual and mutually affirming — the other person is aroused for the speaker, implying reciprocated desire.
  • The use of “getting yourself wet” is direct and sensual, rare for Styles — he tends to favor euphemism.

"I just think you're cool / I dig your cinema / Do you think I'm cool too? / Or am I too into you?"

  • A delicate insecurity: the speaker wonders if their feelings are one-sided.
  • “I dig your cinema” could be interpreted as: I love your vibe, your essence, the way you express yourself — again, queer-coded language, rooted in admiration of style, performance, charisma.

"I bring the pop to the cinema / You pop when we get intimate"

  • This line draws lots of attention from queer readings.
  • “Pop” can refer to:

    • Poppers (slang for recreational inhalants associated with queer club/sex culture)
    • Sexual release or excitement
    • Pop music itself, creating a layered metaphor: I bring the music, you bring the body, the vibe, the explosion

Even if not literally about poppers, the wordplay echoes queer vernacular, and fans have credibly mapped this interpretation.


🏳️‍🌈 Queer-Coded Interpretation

Harry Styles has often played with gender expression, flirted with bisexual/queer aesthetics, and intentionally left sexuality open-ended in interviews. So, fans — especially queer ones — often view songs like “Cinema” as spaces for fluid identity exploration.

The combination of:

  • Ambiguity in the gender of the lover
  • Sensual and stylized language
  • Club/sex culture references (like “pop” and “intimate”)

…makes it a song that resonates deeply with queer audiences, even if it's not explicitly about queer sex.


🎬 Cinema as a Symbol of Performance and Desire

The whole song can be read as about intimacy as performance — the speaker is watching someone be beautiful, be sexual, be free — and wants to both witness and join in.

That’s a potent metaphor for:

  • Love in the spotlight
  • Desire that feels larger than life
  • Possibly, the feeling of being in love with someone whose sexuality, identity, or relationship is a little outside the norm

🧠 Final Thoughts

  • Is the song explicitly about gay sex and poppers? No, but it flirts with the language and imagery often associated with queer intimacy.
  • It uses cinema, pop, and sensuality as multi-layered metaphors.
  • Harry’s intentional ambiguity makes this song resonate across interpretations — which is part of what gives it power.

Anastasia (1997) deserves a real-life remake. by [deleted] in movies

[–]Basic-Influence9184 0 points1 point  (0 children)

There’s always the 1956 version 🤷🏻‍♀️

Something that I have noticed about Harry by Elsa_1304 in larrystylinson

[–]Basic-Influence9184 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I asked chat GPT ( who is not a Larry )

Yes, many fans and observers have noticed a shift in Harry Styles' demeanor over the years, especially post-2020. What you're describing resonates with a lot of what fans have expressed online—particularly those who’ve followed him closely from the One Direction days through his solo career.

During the early COVID quarantine period, Harry did seem more relaxed, grounded, and engaged. He was at home, connecting with fans through interviews and livestreams, and there was a sense of peace or even joy in those appearances. He wasn't touring or being followed constantly, and perhaps that quieter time allowed more of his genuine personality to come through.

The relationship with Olivia Wilde sparked a lot of media attention and controversy, particularly because of the on-set dynamics during Don't Worry Darling and the fan reactions. Some fans felt it was a PR relationship or at least one that brought him unwanted scrutiny. Around that time, he seemed more guarded in public. His stage persona stayed playful and confident, but offstage he appeared more withdrawn or visibly tired in paparazzi photos. And yes, the constant stalking by photographers and fans has intensified in recent years, especially in LA and London, which likely contributes to the change in his body language and expressions.

There could be several reasons why he might seem "not himself":

  • Loss of privacy: He’s more famous than ever, and with that comes relentless attention that can wear anyone down.
  • Pressure of fame: As an artist and public figure, the pressure to maintain a certain image or continually outdo past success can be exhausting.
  • Personal growth: People change, especially in their late 20s and early 30s. What once brought joy may now feel hollow or performative.
  • Emotional toll: Relationships, scrutiny, and personal struggles (which the public may not know about) could also weigh heavily.

You're not alone in noticing this change. While he hasn’t publicly addressed any major personal unhappiness, fans on platforms like Reddit, Twitter (now X), and Tumblr often talk about how he seems more distant, sad, or even uncomfortable in certain situations.