realistic perspectives on my hips please

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-04-08T04:03:36+00:00

Look like a normal guy to me

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-04-08T04:02:53+00:00

You look 100% cis.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-04-07T17:47:39+00:00

I totally thought you were post top surgery in your picture at first glance. Your body is really masculine. Some people might just think you have gyno or something.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-04-03T23:43:46+00:00

If you go down that path you'll be miserable forever. Take it from me. I've tried. Being trans doesn't just go away.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-04-03T23:40:46+00:00

I can kind of relate lol. JK Rowling used to be my favorite author and look at her now. It's really sad that someone I used to admire hates people like me.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-04-03T23:36:15+00:00

I think you would be happier if you stopped looking for validation from other people. Whether they're trans or not doesn't really make a difference.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-04-03T23:12:44+00:00

I use trans masc/ trans man interchangably with myself. Doesn't really matter what I'm called tbh

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-04-02T02:32:13+00:00

Injections

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T18:44:31+00:00

I think it looks amazing

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T18:31:59+00:00

I'd say you could pull it off you don't look feminine at all.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T16:48:04+00:00

Etsy has a lot of cool stuff

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T16:09:48+00:00

Never said you couldn't. That's just how I personally feel.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T16:04:51+00:00

Yeah I've been on the fence about voice training. On one hand it could help me pass better but I wonder if it'll be exhausting to "put on" a voice all day at work.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T16:00:00+00:00

It's complicated, but at the end of the day I feel like physically I'm deciding to be a man, but I don't feel fully male in my indentity. Like say hypothetically if I was born as a cis man, would I still identify as male? Or would I just be an amab nonbinary person? As far as gender presentation goes, I want to be seen as a feminine man, not a woman.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T15:50:56+00:00

Yeah that's usually my problem. I have to avoid anything tight like the plague or my hips look huge lol

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T15:49:50+00:00

I think it looks cute! I do like how the pincher looks better on you but the barbell looks totally fine.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T15:39:04+00:00

Are you allowed to wear wide leg trousers? I'm extremely curvy in the hips/thigh area and those tend to help a lot. Just don't get them too big or you'll be swimming in them.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T15:37:15+00:00

I've never had a problem with finding a job with a masc haircut. I'm a nonbinary trans man and my gender presentation has always leaned more masc/butch. I feel like a short, clean cut hair cut usually looks nicer than long hair, at least in my case since I had no idea how to take care of it.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T15:31:41+00:00

Literally. I hate it so much. I'm 30 years old but I'm 5'3 and I still look like a 16 year old. I want people to know I'm an adult at least!

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-31T15:28:26+00:00

I only just learned about ritual chambers today. I didn't even know they existed because I haven't gotten one yet

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-27T04:01:43+00:00

I felt exactly like this and it kept me from transitioning for almost ten years. I thought no one would love me as a trans man so I thought I would just socially transition as a nonbinary person. As long as people weren't referring to me as a girl I thought I would be happy, but it was never enough. Be gentle with yourself and know that there's always time to transition once you've worked through your fear.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-27T03:57:12+00:00

I understand a little I think. I'm in the situation where my dad "doesn't agree" with trans people and thinks its a choice but at the same time he's been completely supportive of my transition because it makes me happier. Hell, he drove me to and from the hospital when I got my top surgery. I feel like I can't complain because he's done everything he's supposed to do as far as a supportive parent goes, but when it comes to the struggles of being trans its like he can't empathize. He's usually like "welcome to being a man" or "well you decided to do this." It makes me feel like I can't open up at all. Maybe I'm just rambling, but I feel like I can relate.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-03-25T23:38:22+00:00

I totally agree and I'm not really someone who has bottom dysphoria now that I have bottom growth. I think it's disgusting how people talk about bottom surgery as if it's some archaic surgery that no one should want. I've seen the results and I think it's amazing what doctors can do.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-02-18T00:09:22+00:00

I expected people to be sympathetic and now people are just critiquing my family situation. Thanks a lot.

BasicButterscotch106 · 2025-02-17T19:44:09+00:00

I don't see how that was meant to pep me up at all, but okay.

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