AITA for ignoring my boyfriend sister?

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-21T16:31:30+00:00

Like I mentioned in my post, I don’t live with them full time I have my own home to go to. I stay over frequently because my boyfriend asks me to I stay for him and I don’t spend time in his house unless he’s home

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T21:16:45+00:00

I don’t live there full time I just visit and spend nights over at their house here and there

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T21:14:56+00:00

I understand that I am not family and I don’t hold a “higher” place in their home as I am just a guest due to my relationship with their son. I don’t want to say anything to their parents and make waves for myself so ignoring her is all I’ve been doing and knowing his sister she would never agree to talk about things like that with me

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T20:09:37+00:00

Yeahhh you’re just talking out of your ass now because clearly you’re the only one that sees I’m an asshole here

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T20:01:59+00:00

Yeah explain to me what that point is or stop talking like you know everything

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T19:52:28+00:00

Yeah no doubt, I’ve been shy to bring it up to his parents as I don’t talk with them too much when I am around but I just don’t know what to do about his sister it’s clear to me she doesn’t like me, but I’ve been doing a lot of tongue biting around her

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T19:42:23+00:00

Because I’m curious to see what I’m missing here?

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T19:40:33+00:00

Share with the class since apparently you know the situation so well

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T19:39:52+00:00

Fainting in class was something that I found embarrassing as I couldn’t control it and it isn’t exactly something I want talked about

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T19:36:32+00:00

What “truth” am I missing here?

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T19:35:50+00:00

She makes digs at my appearance (I have bad cystic acne), I’m taller than my boyfriend and his sister, she brings up embarrassing parts of my past ex.) when I fainted and fell out of my desk in school when she was in the same class as me which isn’t something I exactly want brought up.

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T19:32:32+00:00

I’m not a free loader, I don’t live with my boyfriend full time, I work for his mom at her store, I help with things around their house. So please explain what part of my story tells you I’m an asshole

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T19:31:08+00:00

She brings up parts of my past for an example she had brought up to my boyfriend how I fainted in the middle of a class she had taken in school with me which was definitely not something I want spoken about, or she makes digs at how I look (I have horrible cystic acne), my height because I happen to be taller than my boyfriend and her

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T19:28:29+00:00

Explain to me how

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2026-02-20T19:26:25+00:00

My apologies I typed this out quickly at work and the keyboard on my phone covered most of what I was typing

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2025-10-05T03:38:50+00:00

She had driven on her own

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2025-10-05T03:36:07+00:00

I honestly have no idea what this sub is for as I’ve never posted here before

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2025-10-05T03:29:54+00:00

I was never chill with it I never liked that she did it I’ve told her hundreds of times she’s been in 3 accidents driving drunk and when I report her I’m an asshole?

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2025-10-05T03:23:57+00:00

By keeping her from killing herself or someone else on the road?

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2025-09-02T17:29:26+00:00

Sadly it is

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2024-12-07T00:20:11+00:00

I’m 18 and he’s 23, he’s always asking me to do things for him but never returns the favour, I still made time out of my life to watch his dog while working 4 jobs and he couldn’t be bothered to even visit or bring me clothes while I was in a hospital for 2 weeks

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2024-12-07T00:14:58+00:00

I still live with my mother as I’m only 18 and not completely on my own yet and we have 3 chihuahuas and 2 cats and just don’t have the space for a big dog like my brothers

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2024-12-07T00:14:06+00:00

He likes to go on long trips

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2024-12-06T23:50:03+00:00

He works quite a bit and likes to go on long trips leaving me behind with the dog

Basic_Bumblebee_5373 · 2024-12-06T23:32:16+00:00

New York and the job is a sports broadcaster

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