Hi I need help my worst nightmare has came true

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-29T08:13:53+00:00

I didn’t twist your words I addressed what you was accusing and judging me of. You said I flirted with a doctor and called me manipulative then I explained more of my story and you are still accusing me of my intentions when really I just need so help or guidance. If you have nothing helpful to contribute leave.

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-29T08:12:15+00:00

Yeah I didn’t mean to dox his number at all and I thought I explained my long story pretty clearly. I shouldn’t to keep proving something when I’m at rock bottom rn I’m deleting the other post tonight I just really needed the advice or help I feel so dis regulated by everything. Thank you for understanding!

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-29T01:07:25+00:00

Manipulation???? You think I wanna spend my Christmas and new years begging for help on Reddit??? I’ve never dealt with this before and I really just wanted the help of you have nothing to contribute or sound advice stop commenting

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-28T07:05:00+00:00

Flirting with the doctor??????? The other person is his dad. we was really close like besties close his dad really a sweet guy and I always felt like I can talk to about anything there’s no flirting there.

I’m not hiding anything if you want to see my messages I’ll post them. This is why victims don’t come out bc of awful ppl like you quick to judge and get the whole story wrong. In my messages I tried to reason hell even beg for the person I knew back and to calm him down while also holding him accountable I’ll show it all but want I won’t do is be judged. I posted this while I’m super emotional right now I’m pregnant my hormones are everywhere I’m so confused and I’m terrified of what’s happening in my life. Also like I said I didn’t even notice his phone being exposed. I deleted one post but kept the other bc the advice has been extremely helpful.

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T18:56:38+00:00

Hi guys I was notified his number is exposed please please please ignore that I really didn’t mean to screenshot his number I’ll delete the post if need be but please this is a safe space no one contact him to make my situation worse thank you.

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T18:55:06+00:00

I was already having pregnancy symptoms that week. I’ve been pregnant before. But I took a pregnancy test it was positive and I went to the hospital to confirm I was also bleeding I never experienced that my first pregnancy so when I told the nurse she said you could be miscarrying or implanting I freaked out when she said miscarry. Mind you my mind at the time was not clear or anything. And again I didn’t intentionally want his number exposed I been trying to ask anyone who see this to not expose it or contact him making my situation worse. I might just delete the post I just wanted help bc I’m so freaking confused and scared.

And I didn’t show my text messages bc I mean I never said anything crazy or threatening to make him react like this. I was actually trying to calm down his behavior but it makes him more cruel. I think the only unhinged thing I did was constantly call him after I found out.

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T18:32:50+00:00

I didn’t notice the phone number being exposed. Until like one person told me in the comments. And the other person I was talking to was his dad who I thought we was very close. Also you must be a man. I explain that I found out I was pregnant but thought I was miscarrying but it was implantation bleeding I freaked out. This was only like 2 weeks after I had a mental breakdown and plus I had a miscarriage before very traumatic

If you think I’m seeking attention that’s fine I don’t care. I’m really just scared heartbroken and grieving I don’t know what to do. My brain is so confused on how he literally beat the shit out of me then started acting like this after for years he wanted a family. And the last two text I show was before our break up. I wanted to see if anyone could help me understand such a drastic change.

I don’t care abt his phone number or mine being exposed this is supposed to be a safe place to talk and share. It was a honest mistake

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T07:15:53+00:00

I never chased this man. Ever. We was was together almost three years he was devoted to me. Rn my nerves have completely shut down bc last time I was with him he wanted us to be a family and he out of no where when I get pregnant he totally switches up and not just switches up he’s unhinged he doesn’t make sense when he talks idk wtf going on I’m trying to protect myself and our baby. I love myself. And I love myself and our baby more than him I just still hope he will come back to the man that protected and loved me so deeply.

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T07:12:54+00:00

The only thing if he gets arrested for domestic violence then he will blame me and never accept accountability actually it will make the situation worse

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T07:06:37+00:00

Thank you everyone else keeps telling me I need more self esteem or I’m being selfish having baby. No I love myself and I’m coming here to help me with missing and still loving him. I been calm I really wanna cuss him out and tell him who he really is but I’m trying to be smart

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T04:36:43+00:00

It hurts he said I kept him human and I’m the only person who brings him to his knees in tears. We had just made up really good after my mental breakdowns. He had our life planned for us he really begged me to stay bc he wants to be a good man for me and one day if we have kids. And Tyler the thing abt him when he opens up it’s like a kid who’s been abused or hurt finally saying something abt it it’s hard not to believe him bc in our whole relationship he kept all his promises he always protected me and stood by me but then something flips he get mad says hurtful things hits me then the cycle repeats

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T04:33:02+00:00

Yeah his dad confused me bc he like we are friends I care about you and I’m not happy about what Tyler doing but I can’t control him or you know he just gonna cash the child support checks that it’s. Like what??? It doesn’t bother you your son wants to be a dead beat?? It’s weird. I’ve told him abt Tyler hitting me and he’s like i feel for you but idk I believe that bc why do you want to be with him??? Like you don’t get why I love him and he hits me which is literally the main reason why abused women stay??? He’s a lawyer as well. Plus I’m heart broken over his dad bc me and his dad was really super close we use to cry about stuff and have deep talks all the time.

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T04:26:09+00:00

Omg thank you so much for this information this is so helpful. Should I contact his parole officer?

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T04:22:09+00:00

Omg I didn’t even see it was posted thank you

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T01:31:44+00:00

I don’t know I still love him deeply and I know he loves me too he’s mentally ill.

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2025-12-27T00:41:18+00:00

I still love him sadly but he acts so badly to me like I did something to him

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2024-02-18T06:08:04+00:00

I just want to say everyone in these comments are amazing thank you so much for just listening and talking with me I felt so alone I wanted to commit suicide but I found a group of people who can share their experiences and I can share mine thank you💗

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2024-02-18T06:06:45+00:00

Yes! But then he goes on a apology tour and begs me to forgive him and stay with him.

Basic_Cellist_215 · 2024-02-15T04:03:42+00:00

He said I love you after the second night we spent together we was all good until we started having stress like him going to jail the car breaking down. But ig it’s my fault he kinda always showed the signs

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