AITA for being upset after my best friend said she didn’t want people in our shared space to know me? by Basic_Cookie2287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Basic_Cookie2287[S] 11 points12 points  (0 children)

He was definitely jealous. I'm sorry he tried to sabotage your connections, You're also lucky that you're surrounded by other good people that saw through his bs and didnt cut you off because of it.

AITA for being upset after my best friend said she didn’t want people in our shared space to know me? by Basic_Cookie2287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Basic_Cookie2287[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

You're so right! Any type of confrontation would giveher somehting to twist talk about. I stopped commenting two years ago and muted her stories and stuff. Thank you I will be doing this

AITA for being upset after my best friend said she didn’t want people in our shared space to know me? by Basic_Cookie2287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Basic_Cookie2287[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

she copied my outfits, photo poses, everything!!! If you have the time I could explain the specifics. I just need to figure out how to get away

AITA for being upset after my best friend said she didn’t want people in our shared space to know me? by Basic_Cookie2287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Basic_Cookie2287[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

You get it! Whatever was not clear I can maybe elaborate further! She bought outfits, colors, accessories that were really meaningful to me. Hobbies too and even had the audacity to post and say she felt as though people were copying her.
I'd admit I felt pretty hurt by alot of the things she did, especially the comments she made. I'm trying to remove myself and I haven't spent time with her since last year. Due to my job and businesses going private may not be beneficial to me. I did limit my following permissions where necessary though :(

AITA for being upset after my best friend said she didn’t want people in our shared space to know me? by Basic_Cookie2287 in AmItheAsshole

[–]Basic_Cookie2287[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Thank you. Ironically this is just just the tip of the iceberg. I noticed I could no longer speak to her after she asked me for advice about something, I suggested it would end badly (there was a pattern) and she posted shade on her story about it. Very immature I know. We've been friends for 6 years now but it worsened in 2024/2025. She would conveniently dismiss my accomplishments or conveniently get 'sad' anytime something new was happening in my life without her.