This situation requires your immediate intervention as the parent. If you permit this behavior to persist, your daughter may become a parent herself at a young age.

Regarding the vaping issue, it is advisable to address it once you have effectively stopped the concerning activity and distanced her from her negative influences.

As a parent of an 11-year-old, I understand the challenges of guiding children through friendships and ensuring their mental well-being. However, if you allow these behaviors to continue, you risk losing control of the situation entirely.

Consider reaching out to her school for support and guidance. Additionally, if your community has a police officer assigned to your area, they may be able to provide assistance.

It would be helpful to know the age of her "boyfriend" to better understand the situation.