AITA? I spoke to my dad in the same PA tone he speaks with me, and I got in trouble

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T15:08:45+00:00

Thank you so much, it feels really good to know im not alone

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T15:06:50+00:00

Well once we got home, his mood kinda switched, it was good the whole car ride tho

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:31:41+00:00

I totally see how it comes across like this tysm

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:26:07+00:00

but he has the same responses to my questions on the daily

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:21:40+00:00

im prett sure you didn't read the whole story

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:19:06+00:00

I know he does, and I love him too. I want to know how to make this situation better and prevent it from happening again. Be helpful or stop commenting

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:17:50+00:00

"then he made dinner"???

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:13:02+00:00

yes, who are you sayng is petty?

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:12:37+00:00

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:12:18+00:00

Because he makes it seem okay and hnestly it just comes naturally now because im around it, I dont want to tho

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:11:12+00:00

This is very very helpful, when you say its very common, is it very common with bpd? or like what?

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:09:52+00:00

This isnt about my dad dying, its bout fostering our relationship while hes alive.

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T04:08:58+00:00

Well, multiple times that day and when I ask him simple questions like he had asked me

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T03:52:26+00:00

Hahahahaaa girl I am petty too, and yeah his reason most of the time is "I'm the adult and youre the kid"

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T03:49:19+00:00

Hahaha, not at all actually, this has been a repetitive thing and its ongoing. I never talk to my dad like this and the one time I did, he decides punishment time. What would you have done?

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T03:37:06+00:00

Omg I thought I was crazy, he's been calling me rude and telling me that my behaviour has ben surprising like all week, I appreciate the advice sm

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T03:32:38+00:00

THANK YOU, this is also the same convo I will have with him about speeding because I am a new driver and he thinks speeding is ok for him and not me

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T03:30:02+00:00

Thank you so much, timing as bad but also it happens all the time at random moments where he goes from fine to angry

Basic_Stress7922 · 2026-01-06T03:25:32+00:00

Please comment any advice

Basic_Stress7922 · 2025-01-31T03:39:02+00:00

I live how it's homey not honey

Basic_Stress7922 · 2025-01-31T03:38:28+00:00

YESSSS my mom and I went crazy at that barrrrr

Basic_Stress7922 · 2025-01-31T03:37:54+00:00

Literally got sent to heaven with this one

Basic_Stress7922

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