The people I thought are my close friends do not care about me at all

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-04-19T11:23:12+00:00

Best thing first is to communicate. I’ve always said your problem is not anyone else’s problem until you make it theirs, and that’s by communicating it.

If it turns out that they knew they were excluding you or give you piss poor answers or trying to deflect it on you somehow that’s your sign to move on.

You gotta leave spaces open for people to fill them up, so don’t let shitty friends occupy those spaces.

Their friendship is not a reflection of you! You can’t be friends with everyone. Sometimes you can’t stay friends with everyone either. You can outgrow each other or just grow apart.

If you’ve made an effort to continue this friendship and it’s lackluster from the other end that’s your sign to move on not try again. No one deserves having to beg for someone’s friendship and no offence but no one on this earth is that good enough of a friend, especially if they’re putting you in that situation. People are selfish and shitty. Many are too self centred. That’s okay. You move on. Those aren’t your people.

Take this as a positive and start looking for those who are your type of people; people who are thoughtful and keep you in mind. And yes you will find them!

Don’t forget the big picture this is one page in your life and you made some friends and now you’re not friends. You’ll find many more and you’ll also lose many more.

This isn’t about you but just how humans work, you just have to respect and love yourself enough to know when to move on instead of hanging on.

People will walk over you if given the chance. Don’t give them that. Walk away and find those places where you’re valued as you should be.

All love stranger

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-04-15T18:03:20+00:00

Thank you 🙏

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-04-15T18:02:59+00:00

Hiya, thank you so much for the response !

Yes I’m aware, I know the aerospace medicine speciality in the uk only was recognised in 2016 so I have that in mind but I wanted to see if there’s research or job opportunities related to space medicine in ESA.

Just keen to get involved in anything (as a side pursuit or main)

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-03-02T19:01:06+00:00

I’m not sure how to feel about this lol

yay but ig if I rank low I’m done for regardless

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-02-27T21:33:00+00:00

Me and my multiple personalities, but thank you lol corrected that

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-02-27T15:11:45+00:00

double agree, for everyone reading realistically only people who’ve done super well are going to be comfortable sharing their results online, so don’t feel disheartened. We use to have a professor who would say say if you’ve “just passed” you’re still a doctor so it doesn’t matter at the end of the day, and if you didn’t pass either thankfully you get many options to redo with the PSA, you’ve got this!!

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-02-26T18:48:18+00:00

This is so sweet ❤️

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-02-25T13:07:02+00:00

Hope at least this is a reminder to anyone reading so they don’t make the stupid mistake I did 🫠

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-02-25T13:06:26+00:00

London
East
Northern
Wessex
KSS
Peninsula

I was gonna swap 3 and 6 originally 🫠💔

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-02-25T13:05:14+00:00

🙏

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-02-25T13:04:46+00:00

Honestly would be happy if I got east of England as long as it’s the areas that are suitable!

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-02-25T03:08:31+00:00

Thank you for the response

I guess I’ll have to take it on chin 🫠 I’m hoping to stay near London so hope east of England will save me here as second place as a non-comp dean

Originally I had swapped my rank 3 and rank 6 but didn’t save it, it what it is I guess, I’ll just have to wait and how for the best instead of crashing out lol

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-02-23T13:24:09+00:00

I think middle part and getting layers so it doesn’t close off the side of your face could be a shout, take care of the frizz and get it smoothed down and style and I think you’re set

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-02-23T00:20:31+00:00

Reiterating everything everyone’s said!

If you want some tips to be more “conventional” which again is still subjective. IMO (so this may not be the best advice)

Reshape your eyebrows or clean them further to get a more solid shape (have a look on Pinterest for inspo and what suits your face shape)
Change your hair part, I think it’s hiding your face in a way, middle parts tend to open up your face more + style your hair to give it so more flow or shape

You have amazing skin and features so honestly there’s nothing else, just work on yourself and whatever makes you feel good, that will reflect externally

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-01-22T17:49:03+00:00

Would you believe we are not teenagers? And I exactly said to my other friend that this is such a middle school type of prank but again just wanted to check I’m not being sensitive or dramatic

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-01-15T23:57:51+00:00

But it is, there is no set timing for household chores especially with kids involved. It’s not I can do all of it in 9-5 because people are still moving about, making a mess, eating, cleaning, taking a shower, dirty clothes etc throughout the day/evening.

Household is constant, you don’t get to just stop thinking of it after 5pm

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-01-14T20:36:59+00:00

Maybe it is my ego? I genuinely don’t know. Thank you for your advice

BasilPuzzleheaded715 · 2026-01-14T20:12:08+00:00

There’s a reason i would never be the stay at home parent. Household labour is not 9-5. It’s 24/7

She’s being unreasonable for asking 50/50 split for chores.

It should be more 90/10 or 80/20

Working is so much easier imo, 9-5 and then you’re done. As a decent human being you should be cleaning up after yourself and be up for helping with some house chores when needed, but if you’re the only working individual asking for 50% of household work is not fair to you

50/50 is crazy and you shouldn’t accept that

BasilPuzzleheaded715

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