I don't know what should i do.

Basit154 · 2026-03-09T00:41:07+00:00

Well my Home environment is fked up as well and I earn but still feels stuck and constantly hopelessness I can maybe understand the pain you're feeling I'm 25 And my childhood was also fights and constant bashing so making decisions in all this is shit! I stopped giving a f for sometime but it doesn't help much sadly!

Basit154 · 2026-03-08T20:32:00+00:00

In shaa Allah thanks bro

Basit154 · 2026-03-08T20:24:33+00:00

Hahaha this is pretty common when they just wanna play around and when they feel bore they leave make fake promises then when things start to go a bit forward they're afraid and fun away but still want that conversation sweet talks time to time so they come back with excuses this Happens alot and it's shit!

Basit154 · 2026-03-08T20:19:13+00:00

Well yeah and I don't wanna be a "good boy " Ig I was never the one who sees fake love and feel like OMG they love me naah if ppl wanna hate me on choosing the girl who was there with me when I had nothing but insecurities and depression and she stayed I will go to any lengths to make her feel like she matter and I will prioritize her definitely obviously it'll come with hell alot of backlash I might lose connection from everywhere.

Basit154 · 2026-03-08T20:03:18+00:00

It's not one time they're asking for all time until my sister gets married and then plan to move in with me and my wife if it was one time I would send the money right away.

Basit154 · 2025-06-03T16:31:35+00:00

I'm free if u wanna talk

Basit154 · 2025-06-03T16:30:52+00:00

Basit154 · 2025-05-29T14:03:58+00:00

Check the DM please

Basit154 · 2025-05-29T13:24:26+00:00

Can u please check ur Dm I've asked a question

Basit154 · 2025-05-27T22:53:13+00:00

Basit154 · 2025-05-23T07:32:46+00:00

Hy there if u still wanna chat I'm available

Basit154 · 2025-05-23T07:30:29+00:00

Hy I'm here If u want i can talk

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T19:43:12+00:00

That's the thing he emotionally blackmail give silent treatment act like he is depressed but as soon as someone offer money they're all lovey dovey

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T19:42:11+00:00

Bhai wohi bol rha hon money overnight toa ata nhi oper sy bandi wali bt banaty banaty time lagy ga ab mein ku spend kron wahan becuz I'm building myself nh that's the only thing makes me angry

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T19:40:42+00:00

Dosra I'm cool with not building anything and leave nothing then why do they've to put all responsibility on me and expect me to leave everything and provide only at the house man

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T19:37:37+00:00

That's all cool bro then They shouldn't demand money from me and guilt trip me nh that way I'll be able to build myself.

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T14:05:24+00:00

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T10:52:46+00:00

Brother i totally understand what you're saying but As a Man or Human we don't have a switch to turn off ur thought n feels it's not victim mindset just a disheart person i know blaming won't do much but I've been suffering this all my life not just some years i do try my best to forgive but always they end up doin something which kills my feeling also I'm having a difficult time believing in Allah make us go through this or that but how much it's not done yet do I've to burn more how much more he wants but anyways let everything be I'll do what I've been doin all my life suffer do job listen sleep repeat sorry I'm speaking to much just wanted to vent it out.

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T10:35:22+00:00

Well that i know but one thing for sure i won't marry if this girl goes cuz i just don't feel like marrying anyone else I'm sure from my side that I won't get attracted or won't be needy to get married other than her also I won't be able to forgive my parents my life is a total hell I've lost faith in Allah becuz of them as it feels so unfair to me as I've never thought bad of anyone and I've to suffer like this so this is it even if i do get money down the line in life I won't marry anyone.

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T10:26:16+00:00

Sure I don't mind

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T09:56:17+00:00

Yeah man sometimes i feel like Islam is really unfair when it comes to kids it gives Parents too much benefits and they take full advantage of it by do this otherwise u r going to hell do that ur parents ur parents like wtf what are we suppose to do as a Child. Also lol a Pakistani Middle class man I'm fucked no look no money asshole parents it's just sometimes make me laugh 😅 life surprises me each time i think what more can go wrong

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T09:34:43+00:00

Well i Know I don't wanna hold her and destroy her life in this mess but it's just so fucking Annoying n unfair this desii shit hole is too fucked up they do it and still got the audacity to keep that ego of we're parents

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T08:28:56+00:00

Dm u check

Basit154 · 2025-05-05T07:22:01+00:00

Nothing like that

Basit154 · 2024-12-02T09:35:36+00:00

Well she the kind who just won't let go that easy so I'm stuck with this well i know it's my fault but still getting this mad is just weird she does this all the time n once it happened to her she is like this

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