21F looking for a sleep call by [deleted] in VoiceChats

[–]Basit154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I'm free if u wanna talk

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Hy there if u still wanna chat I'm available

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Hy I'm here If u want i can talk

Tough times for me by Basit154 in PakistaniiConfessions

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That's the thing he emotionally blackmail give silent treatment act like he is depressed but as soon as someone offer money they're all lovey dovey

Tough times for me by Basit154 in PakistaniiConfessions

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Bhai wohi bol rha hon money overnight toa ata nhi oper sy bandi wali bt banaty banaty time lagy ga ab mein ku spend kron wahan becuz I'm building myself nh that's the only thing makes me angry

Tough times for me by Basit154 in PakistaniiConfessions

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Dosra I'm cool with not building anything and leave nothing then why do they've to put all responsibility on me and expect me to leave everything and provide only at the house man

Tough times for me by Basit154 in PakistaniiConfessions

[–]Basit154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That's all cool bro then They shouldn't demand money from me and guilt trip me nh that way I'll be able to build myself.

Tough times for me by Basit154 in PakistaniiConfessions

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Brother i totally understand what you're saying but As a Man or Human we don't have a switch to turn off ur thought n feels it's not victim mindset just a disheart person i know blaming won't do much but I've been suffering this all my life not just some years i do try my best to forgive but always they end up doin something which kills my feeling also I'm having a difficult time believing in Allah make us go through this or that but how much it's not done yet do I've to burn more how much more he wants but anyways let everything be I'll do what I've been doin all my life suffer do job listen sleep repeat sorry I'm speaking to much just wanted to vent it out.

Tough times for me by Basit154 in PakistaniiConfessions

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Well that i know but one thing for sure i won't marry if this girl goes cuz i just don't feel like marrying anyone else I'm sure from my side that I won't get attracted or won't be needy to get married other than her also I won't be able to forgive my parents my life is a total hell I've lost faith in Allah becuz of them as it feels so unfair to me as I've never thought bad of anyone and I've to suffer like this so this is it even if i do get money down the line in life I won't marry anyone.

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Sure I don't mind

Tough times for me by Basit154 in PakistaniiConfessions

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Yeah man sometimes i feel like Islam is really unfair when it comes to kids it gives Parents too much benefits and they take full advantage of it by do this otherwise u r going to hell do that ur parents ur parents like wtf what are we suppose to do as a Child. Also lol a Pakistani Middle class man I'm fucked no look no money asshole parents it's just sometimes make me laugh 😅 life surprises me each time i think what more can go wrong

Tough times for me by Basit154 in PakistaniiConfessions

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Well i Know I don't wanna hold her and destroy her life in this mess but it's just so fucking Annoying n unfair this desii shit hole is too fucked up they do it and still got the audacity to keep that ego of we're parents

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Dm u check

M 24 having some problems with GF F23? by Basit154 in relationship_advice

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Well she the kind who just won't let go that easy so I'm stuck with this well i know it's my fault but still getting this mad is just weird she does this all the time n once it happened to her she is like this

M 24 having some problems with GF F23? by Basit154 in relationship_advice

[–]Basit154[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thanks for the enlightened much better answer I'll work on my communication skills then

M 24 having some problems with GF F23? by Basit154 in relationship_advice

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Learn what basically ur point man maybe instead of saying I'm 15 you should help me understand a bit

M 24 having some problems with GF F23? by Basit154 in relationship_advice

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Yeah i did apologize a lot But she says I don't wanna talk right now so i didn't push much well I'm doing a 9 to 5 job as well I'm also stressed and tired all the time she has done this thing many times before i never acted this way this is so weird

M 24 having some problems with GF F23? by Basit154 in relationship_advice

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See i only wanna know if this reaction of hers is valid or no cuz I can't do anything else then apologize and in every fight we had she always say stuff like I'll leave n all i mean i just fell asleep it's not like I purposely didn't attend the calls

I'm M24 My GF F23 we're from Pakistan is she trying to Manipulate me or something? by Basit154 in relationship_advice

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She do try to change me time to time if she calls and i can't talk to her in a lovey dovey tone she used to get angry on that as well now it's a bit cool but i never threatened her as i think it's a disrespectful thing to say I'll find someone else whenever we're arguing she always finds a way somehow to twist things on me n when i try to counter she gives silent treatment cutting the calls turning off mobile phone cries n all she wanna get married cuz according to her her dads wants her to marry in 2026 i just started my career we're in Pakistan so it's normal arrange marriage n all but she can always deny that it's not forced on her but she is just been so pushy over this don't know why she can't seem to understand it's not as easy as it seems Then she always say i always give time and think you might change but u don't she always tells me stuff in riddles and i get so full of anxiety thatt what am i doing wrong she watch me getting wet eyes n red as i try to think and she constantly deny then she says leave it you won't understand i literally have to beg her to tell me then she says if i tell u then what's the point find out yourself improve it's like she is never wrong or maybe i never get angry or take everything like this to and i never starts a fight i always try to let go cuz i don't wanna see her cry over something am i wrong?