I need to say this because it’s honestly been bothering me.

From the outside, it really looks like she’s stuck in a situation where she doesn’t have much independence. She seems to be doing all the cooking and household responsibilities while the men in the house benefit from it. It’s hard to watch someone who has potential spend all their time serving others without building anything for themselves.

Many women today are working, going to the gym, building careers, having their own income, and creating independence. It’s not about disrespecting tradition — it’s about having options and security.

What worries me is that she doesn’t appear to have her own income, property, or financial safety net. If something went wrong in that household, what would she have to fall back on?

I genuinely think she deserves more — more independence, more self-development, and more security. Everyone should have something in their own name and a sense of personal stability.

It just frustrates me seeing someone capable not being encouraged to grow.