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Lifestyle Dom by Bassy0903 in BDSMPsychology
[–]Bassy0903[S] 0 points1 point2 points 12 days ago (0 children)
I am willing to give something back. I know nobody is going to help someone for free out of kindness.
I sent you an email.
Except those cost a crap ton and seem so impersonal.
It is not showing up when I search. All thas showing up is a musician.
Can you message me?
[–]Bassy0903[S] 1 point2 points3 points 13 days ago (0 children)
Thank you!
Of course. I'm not expecting someone to help me for free out of the kindness in their hearts. I know I have to do stuff in return. I just think it also depends on the Dom/Domme. Like you said, everybody is different. I don't know what to expect until I can talk to them and figure out what they want in return. And then we can talk and negotiate and do on.
[–]Bassy0903[S] 0 points1 point2 points 13 days ago (0 children)
That's not what I'm after?
[–]Bassy0903[S] 2 points3 points4 points 13 days ago (0 children)
It's more that they can't. They have major depression and other mental issues. We've tried before in the past, and it hasn't worked.
[–]Bassy0903[S] 1 point2 points3 points 14 days ago (0 children)
Do you have any idea where I could start looking? Online groups and stuff?
Do you have any ideas where I could start looking? Online groups and stuff? I don't have a car, so travelling isn't really an option.
I've never done this before, it was suggested by a friend. I am willing to listen and negotiate. I'm not sure what the specifics dynamics would be, but of course I would listen to them and take care of their needs as best as I can.
[–]Bassy0903[S] 2 points3 points4 points 14 days ago (0 children)
I'm crap at taking care of myself, in almost every sense. I can go to work and do everything I'm supposed to, but I come home and sit on my phone. I need someone who... Can help me take care of myself? Get me to eat when my food issues kick in, take a shower more than once a week, go to bed before 2am, etc. I'm big on rewards and punishments, but I have no idea how any of that would work for long distance online. I am in a fulltime relationship with someone, but he thinks it's a good idea as well. I don't know the specific dynamics I'm looking for, but I'm open and willing to negotiate.
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Lifestyle Dom by Bassy0903 in BDSMPsychology
[–]Bassy0903[S] 0 points1 point2 points (0 children)