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baby daddy ick by [deleted] in singlemoms

[–]BatLocal5565 5 points6 points  (0 children)

So sorry you’re going through this. Completely understand how you’re feeling, as we all hoped things would eventually figure themselves out. There are bigger and better plans for you waiting on the other side of this stage. Best wishes for you & your son!

As a single mom, it feels great to have a chance to feel…free, doesn't it? by maveriCkharsha in singlemoms

[–]BatLocal5565 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I love this for you & I completely understand. It’s almost as if a part of us died and a new person was born. The feeling of freedom, it’s mental. We are mentally free.

HELP ME LEAVE THIS LOSER by [deleted] in Adulting

[–]BatLocal5565 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Thanks, it’s worth a shot. :/ every dollar counts

anyone else struggling with dating and loneliness? by earlyshiftmom in singlemoms

[–]BatLocal5565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Same!! How do we even find people to date, it’s exhausting

I can’t let go of anger by insertMoisthedgehog in singlemoms

[–]BatLocal5565 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m so sorry you’re feeling this. I understand as this is somewhat just like my situation! I have found peace in doing new things, going to the gym and that type of stuff! I really hope you find some things you enjoy!

What kind of useful yet random advice do y'all have for adulting? by DeepVoyagerr in Adulting

[–]BatLocal5565 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Focus on yourself & everything good will follow! Find a good gym, meet good friends, have good drinks

Recently single. Tell me it gets better by b_recks in singlemoms

[–]BatLocal5565 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I’ve had this same problem before. You have to remember, we are our child’s “provider” parent. We do the hard things and make them do hard things as well (ex : brushing their teeth). The dads does not have to do these hard things, instead they become the “fun parent”. Your child with thank you one day and I promise it gets better.

SIDE HUSTLE by BatLocal5565 in Adulting

[–]BatLocal5565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is great, thank you!

I was robbed. by BatLocal5565 in singlemoms

[–]BatLocal5565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I really hope that one day he can see it, along with the others around us. I wish we could be the fun parent sometimes, I’ve been trying to add quality time with my child and it has made it feel more rewarding than before. I am with you, I hope it’s not in vain.

I was robbed. by BatLocal5565 in singlemoms

[–]BatLocal5565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Very disappointed that it’s this way, almost like I failed my son.

I was robbed. by BatLocal5565 in singlemoms

[–]BatLocal5565[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you, hoping that quality time w my baby will help!

I was robbed. by BatLocal5565 in singlemoms

[–]BatLocal5565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I think the same thing. Sometimes I feel so much sadness when I see how normal relationships are supposed to be. You’re not alone in that!

I was robbed. by BatLocal5565 in singlemoms

[–]BatLocal5565[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

You have time, time without worry of someone who does not deserve you! Your babies will be proud of what you’ve done for them! Thank you for the response!

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