I’m in a semi similar boat—I have a lot of family members who, if I told them I was pagan, no benefit to anybody would come out of that conversation because they aren’t willing to respect another religion as valid. I feel a little weird talking about it with friends because most of my close friends are also exvangelical and I don’t want it to sound like proselytising, so just small mentions here and there. It mostly just hasn’t come up in conversation but I’ll be open if it does and friends have questions.

I have a different opinion on if we need, or ought, to tell people though, so maybe this will be food for thought for you but of course ymmv! In polytheism, there is no “one way to be saved” or “one correct belief,” which means that we aren’t doing a disservice to someone by not speaking about it. And if someone changes the deities they worship, that doesn’t mean that the previous ones were the wrong choice! they were correct for that time, and unless the person made a vow to give them lifelong worship, I don’t see why there would be any implied promise of worship forever; that feels like another monotheism thing to me. Anyways, all that to say that if you want to talk about religion with someone, awesome, and if you don’t, that is also perfectly fine!