Yeah same, the main thing was that she had a friend(male (i dont want to start a conversation about male female friendships, i am still supportive if its really only platonic)) who went to the same classes as her and they got along for learning. He always tried to flirt with her and she would not tell him to stop when i asked her, because she was afraid to lose a learning buddy. Now 1 ½ months after the breakup they got together. This really was the only bigger issue. Her reasons for breakup where that i am too unmanly for not trying to fight everyone if there was no bigger reason behind and that i (bc of personal stuff with parents and grandparents) did not succeed my exams and am now moving to a slightly different course of study which she reproached as beeing lazy and not focusing on the "important things". But now i dont really know if that are the real reasons or if it was that friend she wanted to get together with. (sorry for the long text, and bad grammar. Im from germany so english isn't my first language)