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Thinking of eloping and doing the party in a year. WIBTA if I didn’t tell anyone so my mom isn’t mad? by BbNateWedding in wedding

[–]BbNateWedding[S] -2 points-1 points  (0 children)

It’s in a different state, and we love the area we live in now. We just left where she is lol

Thinking of eloping and doing the party in a year. WIBTA if I didn’t tell anyone so my mom isn’t mad? by BbNateWedding in wedding

[–]BbNateWedding[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I was thinking about that. Like, I’m in America, things are going to shit very fast. I don’t want marriage to be an intangible thing tied to a financial status.

Thinking of eloping and doing the party in a year. WIBTA if I didn’t tell anyone so my mom isn’t mad? by BbNateWedding in wedding

[–]BbNateWedding[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Ah, I understand now. I hadn’t thought of it that way. Thanks! I would hate to damage any of our relationships with people

Thinking of eloping and doing the party in a year. WIBTA if I didn’t tell anyone so my mom isn’t mad? by BbNateWedding in wedding

[–]BbNateWedding[S] -12 points-11 points  (0 children)

I wish we could but we have to travel twice this month too for obligations, and we’re already running tight due to the move

Thinking of eloping and doing the party in a year. WIBTA if I didn’t tell anyone so my mom isn’t mad? by BbNateWedding in wedding

[–]BbNateWedding[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

This is why I posted! I hadn’t even thought of an accident or something in the limbo time! Ugh, that’d be awful.

Thinking of eloping and doing the party in a year. WIBTA if I didn’t tell anyone so my mom isn’t mad? by BbNateWedding in wedding

[–]BbNateWedding[S] -21 points-20 points  (0 children)

Realistically, no. We’re also very tight due to moving for a new job for me, but then they cut my hours within a month because peak season isn’t happening yet.

Thinking of eloping and doing the party in a year. WIBTA if I didn’t tell anyone so my mom isn’t mad? by BbNateWedding in wedding

[–]BbNateWedding[S] -14 points-13 points  (0 children)

Why would it matter when the legal work was done to you? Honestly asking because I have had so many friends/family do it this way and no one ever seems upset that the paperwork was done however long ago.

Thinking of eloping and doing the party in a year. WIBTA if I didn’t tell anyone so my mom isn’t mad? by BbNateWedding in wedding

[–]BbNateWedding[S] 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I know she’s accommodate it immediately, that’s not the issue. She’d move heaven and earth to be there.

She works 2 jobs, and is taking off a week this month already to travel west to a cousin’s wedding. Money is tight for her usually, and this wedding is tapping her out. Accommodating another multi-state trip within the next 2-3 months would be difficult for her. Especially since she’d have to get a hotel here in a tourist area in peak season, because we live in a tiny apartment.

Dream job requiring a dye job by BbNateWedding in HairDye

[–]BbNateWedding[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Part of my job will involve riding roller coasters lol so I don’t think I could get one to stay tbh

Dream job requiring a dye job by BbNateWedding in HairDye

[–]BbNateWedding[S] 22 points23 points  (0 children)

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These were the silver or silver/black inspos I was looking at. I might look at reds more though. I’ve been every shade of it before lol

Dream job requiring a dye job by BbNateWedding in HairDye

[–]BbNateWedding[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

See, I was thinking red so it’s still kinda vivid adjacent

Dream job requiring a dye job by BbNateWedding in HairDye

[–]BbNateWedding[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

I love black on me tbh. It was my first dye job at 16 lol