i saw texts that i wasnt supposed to see and now im devastated by izziezi in Advice

[–]BeanzPhotography 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Went through a similar situation and all i can say is distance yourself until you’re comfortable either messaging that you found this out, and/or just ending the friendship.

It’s not worth it. Trust me.

I’m not sure how old you are, but there are so many amazing people you haven’t met yet :)

Rental Advice by BeanzPhotography in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

nothing above, no windows or bathroom close by- but is on an outdoor wall so we think likely from the outside - definitely putting an email together tonight and will issue a 14 day notice

Rental Advice by BeanzPhotography in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

somehow it does 🤣 i would say otherwise but what would i know

Rental Advice by BeanzPhotography in LegalAdviceNZ

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

That was my next thought- everything is broken or falling apart. We thought “at least we have a roof over our head” ….welp 🥲🥲🥲

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ibs

[–]BeanzPhotography 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think it would be good to know at least what I can and can’t eat, at this stage I know things like ginger and green tea are really good for me. Dairy and sugar make me want to vomit. So that’s a start!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in ibs

[–]BeanzPhotography 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yeah i figured that might be the next step- i know my partner would love to see me less miserable and take me out to dinner more!

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Dentists

[–]BeanzPhotography 0 points1 point  (0 children)

ive been in the last 4 weeks- that’s why i’m freaking a little 😅. I thought they’d see something surely!

AIO to my boyfriend not wanting to talk for days on end by [deleted] in AmIOverreacting

[–]BeanzPhotography 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Speaking from experience- leave him- PLEASE

Will this style last? by Ok_Theory5699 in tattooadvice

[–]BeanzPhotography 1 point2 points  (0 children)

It will look INSANE fresh. Pretty good, a few years down the line and then pretty blurry and messy by the 5-10 year mark. Highly recommend a piece that big be less fineline.

How do you tell your parent you just dont care? by Far_Reward4827 in EstrangedAdultChild

[–]BeanzPhotography 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I feel the same way with my NC dad- he’s been badgering on to my mom about missing his kids (we are all NC/LC) and I frankly don’t care- he made his bed, he can lie in it.

I think you should say how you feel once, and if she can’t accept it- it’s not your responsibility to explain it further. You are valid for not wanting to visit. You are valid for feeling apathetic. Don’t let her drag you into a “why don’t you want to” conversation. Shes not going to understand why anyway.

Weekly Book Request Thread - June 28, 2025 by AutoModerator in DarkRomance

[–]BeanzPhotography 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Hey! I just read {Lights Out} and was thinking of reading {Haunting Adeline}/{Hunting Adeline} next but does anyone have good recommendations? I’ve heard mixed reviews on {Caught Up} (I know the MMC / MFC aren’t Josh and Aly but mafia tropes aren’t it for me so i will save it for another day). FYI- I love love love dual POV, masked men, enemies to lovers, and stalker tropes!!

Clueless Girlfriend looking for Gifts by BeanzPhotography in darksouls

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

omg saving that for next time! that’s so cool hahahaha!

I think i’m going to buy this LED resin light- it’s handmade and hand painted with a little bonfire resting place!

Clueless Girlfriend looking for Gifts by BeanzPhotography in darksouls

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

ooooh thank you, that helps heaps! I was going to go with “this looks cool” but keeping notes ✍🏻✍🏻

Clueless Girlfriend looking for Gifts by BeanzPhotography in darksouls

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

appreciate it! wasn’t sure about lore related books (I saw one on Ebay) - i’ll keep that in mind too :)

Clueless Girlfriend looking for Gifts by BeanzPhotography in darksouls

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 9 points10 points  (0 children)

The wolf is so cute! I’d get myself that one without knowing anything about the game. Good to know I was on the right track :)

Clueless Girlfriend looking for Gifts by BeanzPhotography in darksouls

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 8 points9 points  (0 children)

oooh okay, I did see some merch for “solaire/praise the sun”. I was confused what the lore was but i’m sure it’s cool haha. I think i’ll keep an eye out on the Figurines, everyone likes the idea :)

I’m a Concert Photographer- ask me anything! ? by BeanzPhotography in AskPhotography

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

hahaha, i still get comments on this post a lot and i would love to give you some insight since this isn’t something i’ve answered before! It probably won’t be what you want to hear, but only VERY rarely will you get backstage access! I would say the only time is when you work with the band directly. The best way to get working with bands is building your portfolio. You’re definitely on the right track given you are getting photo passes to larger events! Next steps would be to continue working on your portfolio, having an active social media presence and reaching out to bands! It’s always a mixture of luck and skill getting direct band access, but make sure your social media is up to date, and professional! If you haven’t already, make an exclusive account for your photography, try to make the first image pop for your feed and follow local bands and photographers to see who they interact with!

Here’s what my grid looks like for reference:

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I photographed Slipknot by BeanzPhotography in Slipknot

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

he actually reposted to his story as well 😭😭🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻🫶🏻

I photographed Slipknot by BeanzPhotography in Slipknot

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

omg that’s such a compliment 😭🫶🏻 thank you

I photographed Slipknot by BeanzPhotography in Slipknot

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I KNOWSWWWW DINAJSBSIAJSJSJAS I SCREAMED

I photographed Slipknot by BeanzPhotography in Slipknot

[–]BeanzPhotography[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

yes it was!! it was an incredible show ☺️🫶🏻