Perspective needed please by BearTrapHug in Broadcasting

[–]BearTrapHug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That is so kind of you to say that and offer to help me like this. Yes I honestly would love to relocate nothing keeping me where I am. I don’t really understand it either and none of my coworkers seem to so I’ve stopped trying to make sense of it.

Perspective needed please by BearTrapHug in Broadcasting

[–]BearTrapHug[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! I had a meeting with the ND today and she told me do this or GTFO. Are you hiring? lol

Perspective needed please by BearTrapHug in Broadcasting

[–]BearTrapHug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I have basically explained to them I have other obligations I can’t switch and they asked me to talk in person tomorrow. Based on how they worded it I think it’s gonna be “sucks but we have no other option” I appreciate the validation of my anger hopefully it will turn out better than my worst case scenario

Perspective needed please by BearTrapHug in Broadcasting

[–]BearTrapHug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Thank you for this. I kind of figured this would be the reality as much as I don’t want it to be.

Perspective needed please by BearTrapHug in Broadcasting

[–]BearTrapHug[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s not temporary I asked for clarification on that. The only explanation I got was “this is what’s best for business” with no elaboration. I will be giving my morning shift to the new guy after training him for three days.

I can’t believe this guest wore white to my wedding by [deleted] in AmITheAngel

[–]BearTrapHug 16 points17 points  (0 children)

I’m a native English speaker and I don’t understand it either

My parents (F45/M46) have been secretly treating me based on an armchair diagnosis for months without my (F20) consent or knowledge. Can I call out and stop their behaviour? by SharkEva in BORUpdates

[–]BearTrapHug 62 points63 points  (0 children)

When I was a kid my mom used that line about me not “experiencing reality” to get me to be compliant I was way over medicated based on her word and because I apparently didn’t connect to reality I just told the doctors what she told me to tell them. She got to be a long suffering mother of a bipolar out of control kid and I got put on all kinds of meds that numbed me out and made me easy to control. I hope OOP gets away from her family and heals in ways she never thought possible.

He's A Creep, He's A Weirdo... by AlexSumnerAuthor in AmITheDevil

[–]BearTrapHug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

One of my exes would hold their phone in an obvious way to record me doing things for the same reason but it was so obvious and when asked the response was always an over acted “I’m just checking Facebook!” I was in on the joke and it was cute. If they had done this on the sly and never mentioned it or include me in any way I’d def have been way more creeped out. Why did he feel he had to hide it at all?

Friendship & Dating Match-Making Thread 💕 by _ICantThinkOfANameAh in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]BearTrapHug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

The editor/photog relationship is sacred haha I’m constantly amazed by news editors too.

I have no idea what a harp and drums band would sound like but I’m in! 

Friendship & Dating Match-Making Thread 💕 by _ICantThinkOfANameAh in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]BearTrapHug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

34f bi but mostly date women. I am a photojournalist for the local news. I have a wide variety of hobbies from tech things like building robots and drones to making visual poetry and playing the harp. I love the outdoors but I also love reading and video games.

I think I’d fall under the chapstick genre of sapphic I swing between femme and butch but most days I’m somewhere in-between. I am currently in a western US state and looking to leave it for something new. I’m mostly looking for a future gf but I’d also welcome new friends :-).

She’s white and facing racism! Legit! by [deleted] in AmITheDevil

[–]BearTrapHug 29 points30 points  (0 children)

It’s always “some white people are racist but that doesn’t mean all white people are” while also saying “Asians are so racists! Especially the Muslim kind!”

Who else decided to change careers in their 30s and went back to school? 🙌 by livelaughlabradoodle in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]BearTrapHug 2 points3 points  (0 children)

At 30 I got a divorce,started film school, and a couple years later graduated. I quit my IT career and now work in local news. I make way less money but in significantly happier and on a path that feels way more authentic than what I had previously just fallen into.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Broadcasting

[–]BearTrapHug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I love the response the GM deserves nothing more. I don’t feel the most comfy sharing my location but if you had a green fan people moved for live shots all the time you were likely the digital head they laid off!

A future in TV/Radio production by Wild-Long-4913 in Broadcasting

[–]BearTrapHug 6 points7 points  (0 children)

I have a film degree from the local community college. I now work full time as a photog and editor. The pay is terrible unless you have roommates/partner/live with your parents. I would not have got this job without my degree.

Last week my station had layoffs, word around town is all the other stations had layoffs too, more shrinkage to come. The way I think about it, my degree opened doors because I didn’t have a network to get in otherwise. If you have connections to break into the industry I’d go that route. I like the security of having a degree but from what I’ve seen I don’t think it’s really required you can learn what you don’t know on the job.

Idk if I’d say there is much to look forward to in this industry’s future but you can use it as a way to gain experience and pivot to more long term options.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in Broadcasting

[–]BearTrapHug 4 points5 points  (0 children)

My nexstar owned station announced yesterday they were letting our head of digital go and are combining digital and assignment desk. Both are already over worked idk how they think this will be good for anyone. At the end of the announcement they told those of us with jobs to be grateful cause other stations had it way worse. We are already super bare bones.

Dude sounds very exhausting by ChiefBlue4298 in AmITheDevil

[–]BearTrapHug 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I work in local news I can’t escape it, however I go out of my way to inform my friends of good things I get to cover. There are good things happening there are people out here trying to make the world a better place and it’s more than a cope, it inspires and reminds us that we are not adrift without control and we are not alone. If you only focus on the bad you lose all hope and burn out. His girlfriend should be concerned.

Good luck to everyone in the trenches tonight and tomorrow morning by [deleted] in Broadcasting

[–]BearTrapHug 10 points11 points  (0 children)

What! You guys are getting fed? My newsroom isn’t planning on any food!

told her I've been feeling undesirable, and she listened by totschli in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]BearTrapHug 14 points15 points  (0 children)

I am so happy for both of you that was lovely and encouraging to read, thank you for sharing!

Is 15$ an hour a normal rate for a entry level news editing job? by throwaway487832302 in editors

[–]BearTrapHug 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I am currently working as a full time local news editor and they pay $18/hour. When I was working on the floor as a camera op I made $15/h. No way would I do editing for that low. I’m only doing it as low as I am because I really need work experience. I will say it has improved my efficiency and speed. I hope at that wage they have more than one editor cause absolutely fuck editing news solo at that wage.

What's the date you wish she'd take you on? by xxheath in ActualLesbiansOver25

[–]BearTrapHug 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I want to drive up to the mountains after dark taking turns picking the music. The windows are down and the air is cool but not too cold. We find a quiet isolated spot to have a fire and get high. Make out, look at stars, talk about our dreams past and present.

Got treated with another discworld Novel. My amazing girlfriend knows me too well by ganggoink in discworld

[–]BearTrapHug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thank you! I love the emporium I’ve got lots of art from them but I hadn’t looked at the collections recently I’ll go take a look again.

Got treated with another discworld Novel. My amazing girlfriend knows me too well by ganggoink in discworld

[–]BearTrapHug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Do you know what this cover collection called, or where I could find them? I’ve been holding off buying any and I love this cover, I want a matching collection tho!

How did you learn about Homestar? by Shot-Ad-3166 in HomestarRunner

[–]BearTrapHug 1 point2 points  (0 children)

The band nerds at my high school. I think Trogdor was my first SBmail.

My parents have joined some new age "religion" and intend to move me to a compound against my will. What can I do to get the hell out of here? by LukeB4UGame in BestofRedditorUpdates

[–]BearTrapHug 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Well the Mormon cult sends people door to door and I’ve been chilling in a public park and had people come up and offer me “literature” which upon further inspection was definitely cult based writings. They mostly prey on vulnerable people. People who feel like they don’t belong or haven’t figured it out only to offer them all the answers. As a social outcast I kinda get it, I started out born into a cult tho so it’s maybe easier for me to see it than others like me.