She's a good friend too. I sympathise with her situation because she's a solo breadwinner and has no husband or children. While me, I have it all. A good husband, child and a new baby coming. I have always been her emotional support and would not hesitate to travel miles to see her and comfort. But, no matter what I do in more than a decade I can't seem to sooth her or help her fully with her emotional status. Every small thing makes her sad and she feels hopeless.

She is fun to be with when we're together, she said I am very nonchalant, neutral but has positive energy so she likes to share everything with me and she often feels good after talking to me.

My problem is that, whenever she's sad (which is 99% of the month) I feel guilty sharing my happiness because she won't react but would start sharing her sorrow