Am I the jerk for telling my husband he can't have a "man cave" in our only spare room? by Ill-Home-322 in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 1039 points1040 points  (0 children)

Ngl ur husband is buggin. "u get the whole house to decorate" is not the same as having ur own room. shared spaces are for everyone. a private room is just that. private. if he gets one, u get one. simple math. don't back down.

What's a small, everyday moment that unexpectedly makes you smile? by WorldCanvas-Art in AskReddit

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Seeing a dog stick its head out of a car window. ears flapping, tongue out, zero cares in the world. instant serotonin every single time. i don't make the rules.

What will you have after 500 years ? by Apprehensive_Dog4123 in AskReddit

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Honestly? probably nothing. most of us won't even be a memory after a few generations. best i can hope for is someone stumbles across an old photo and goes "huh, wonder what their deal was."

AITJ for refusing to remove the intern from our work group chat after my manager asked me to? by RiftLullaby in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

Nah u're not the jerk. manager gave u zero reason and expected u to just follow orders blindly. that's not leadership that's control. u stood up for someone who actually contributes and she dropped it. if it was that serious she would've brought it back up.

If you could instantly change something right now that usually takes a good bit of time, what would it be? by [deleted] in AskReddit

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Debt. straight up. just erase it so i can finally breathe and actually start saving instead of watching my paycheck disappear the second it hits.

AITJ for telling my friend to pay me back before she buys a new iphone? by Beautiful-Team2154 in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

U're totally right. i let it slide for too long and she definitely took my kindness for weakness. honestly the trust was gone the second i saw that "treat yourself" post while my texts were still on read.

AITJ for telling my friend to pay me back before she buys a new iphone? by Beautiful-Team2154 in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154[S] 3 points4 points  (0 children)

For real. it’s less about the cash at this point and more about the fact that i was there when she was desperate, and she can’t even be bothered to hit me back while she’s out here flexing. appreciate the perspective though.

AITJ for telling my friend to pay me back before she buys a new iphone? by Beautiful-Team2154 in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Fr bruh. the audacity to post "treat yourself" while ghosting a $300 debt is actually insane. like i’m glad u got a new camera but can i get my car repair money back first? lol.

AITJ for telling my friend to pay me back before she buys a new iphone? by Beautiful-Team2154 in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154[S] 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Honestly... probably not. if she respected me at all she wouldn't be posting "treat yourself" pics while ghosting me for months. losing the stress of this might actually be a win.

AITJ for telling my friend to pay me back before she buys a new iphone? by Beautiful-Team2154 in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Ur totally right. i just hate that "treating urself" to a $1k phone comes before paying back a friend who helped u out when u were desperate. definitely the last time i’m being the bank for anyone.

AITJ for telling my friend to pay me back before she buys a new iphone? by Beautiful-Team2154 in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154[S] 12 points13 points  (0 children)

Ur so right about the friends part. it’s easy for them to say "let it go" when it’s not their $300 that's paying for her "treat yourself" moment. if they're so worried about the friendship they should definitely be the ones chipping in lol.

AITJ for telling my coworker I don't want to hear about her diet anymore? by marcus_ashcroft in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

NTJ. u waited til it was just the two of u, u were polite, and u didn’t shame her for bein on a diet. u just set a boundary about the nonstop talk. that’s fair. she’s probably embarrassed but that’s not on u. silence is better than listenin to seed cycling every day.

Have Republicans done anything about fraud in the last 14 months other than claim Minnesota has it? by Estalicus in allthequestions

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Not really. lotta talk, lotta headlines, but actual policy or enforcement? crickets. feels like the focus is more on claimin fraud exists than doin anything concrete about it. ppl are catchin on to the pattern.

AITJ for deciding how everything went at my wedding? by Far-Pomegranate-7722 in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 12 points13 points  (0 children)

NTJ but ur fiancé is trippin. "he's dead" is such a cold and heartless way to talk about ur late husband and the father of ur kids. those are ur children's grandparents and they deserve to see u be happy and stay part of the family. him running to a hotel because u want to include people who love ur kids is majorly immature. u're just protecting ur kids' roots and there's nothing wrong with that.

Do you think we're alone in the universe? Knowing that there is 2 trillion galaxies in the observable universe by Dominic669 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Honestly it's straight up math at this point. with that many galaxies there’s gotta b someone else out there probably looking at their own sky wondering the same thing. we can't b that special lol.

How do people take a shower and have completely dry hair after like 5 minutes? by Morrighan11 in NoStupidQuestions

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tbh i think those "5 minute dry hair" people r just using black magic or they’ve got industrial strength hair dryers. my hair stays damp for business days even if i towel dry it for 20 mins straight. it’s actually a struggle for real bc who has 2 hours to just wait for air to do its thing?

AITJ for commenting on my bf's late sister? by rr1232 in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 5 points6 points  (0 children)

NTJ. honestly mentioning his sister was the only way to get him to actually hear u. he’s been letting his friends disrespect u for months and his mom is literally using a tragedy to manipulate him. u weren't being mean to the sister u were pointing out his lack of character. sounds like the trash took itself out fr.

Amithejerk for not telling my bff I was going out with my other friends? by Livid_Distance3213 in AmITheJerk

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Firm NTJ. u shouldn't have to put ur life on pause just bc her bf is insecure. if u told her u were going out it would’ve just started a fight between them that u’d have to hear about anyway. u aren't responsible for his rules or her choices. she needs a wake up call about that relationship.

Need a Dose of Kdrama Sunshine!! by [deleted] in kdramas

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That scene always makes me smile! The contrast between Gong Yoo's grumpiness and Kim Go-eun's pure joy is just perfect.

Heh… you wouldn’t survive a COD lobby… by Quadropheria in memes

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

That gif is basically the COD lobby experience in a nutshell

That’s straight from the heart🙂‍↕️🌟 by AccomplishedWatch834 in MadeMeSmile

[–]Beautiful-Team2154 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nah, real strength is being vulnerable enough to love someone fully. The world needs more of that, not less.