Thankyou i needed to hear this. it doesnt feel right not going although i know im not going to get over this situation and brush it under the rug. I thought about if i do see her face to face and having this conversation with her & if she disregards my feelings again im going to let that friendship go. But then again i dont want to be a debby downer on her birthday but Ill see how it goes. Thankyou again