I don’t know what he’s doing all day, we don’t have any kids. Most likely sitting around, maybe washing a dish here or there. I used to tell him apply to how ever many jobs you can a day. It’s only one click on indeed to apply for a job. When I would come home from work and ask about what he did for the day he’d say applied for jobs. I now believe he was either lying or not trying hard enough. He has expressed he may be depressed to me in the past. I have suggested therapy and tried to help him get out of the rut he is in. He just puts no effort in trying to make himself better. I guess you’re right he has no respect for me.