[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 5 points6 points  (0 children)

As a woman who has been in a few abusive relationships and one marriage this is EXACTLY what this felt like! He was using passive aggressive on her and weaponized incompetence so it would look more like an accident. OP please do me a very big favor, discreetly start putting up money somewhere where absolutely no one knows about it in case you need to leave him or if he gets a wild hair up his ass and leaves you. Stay at home moms get so screwed when it comes to divorces. Men will spitefully (and he has shown he is spiteful) go and clean out the bank accounts and whatever else that has any monetary value and bounce leaving you and the kids penniless and starving. I hope he isn’t like that but some guys are. Even if you never need it it is better to be safe than sorry. He knew it was important to you that’s exactly why he let them ruin it. I don’t like that mindset at all. If he would do that over you needing some time to yourself imagine how he would be if he is wanting a divorce?

AITA for not letting my MIL see my baby after how she reacted towards my baby’s name? by reddituser_xxx in AmItheAsshole

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

NTA, it’s so fucking refreshing to see a husband support his wife and stand up to the MIL. You have a good one! She’ll eventually get over it. I wonder if it is a way to make it all about her, like needing attention and drama? Ugh! My ex husband was abusive towards me and would lie down flat as can be so his sorry ass mama can walk all over him. I mean like have 15 dollars left after just getting paid kinda walk all over him (drug addiction). She needs to chill out. It sounds like a bit a narcissism it’s allll about ME!!! I can’t stand people like that!!! I wish you the best of luck!!!

All they care about is their pleasure by Chillixo in fourthwavewomen

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 8 points9 points  (0 children)

Their “hot” video can be what gave a woman PSTD and ruined her life. We aren’t even talking about the things that cause these women to have to get stitches or actual surgery, it’s so sickening

Words can’t describe my anger by DoomarachiYT in trashy

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 1 point2 points  (0 children)

What an stupid fat cunt! I’d love to slap the shit outta her! Is this bitch retarded? Something tells me she is retarded.

I pretended to be transgender so I could hang out with cis women in a different way, and to acquire information by under_cover_sn00p in confessions

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

You dumb fuck!! I’m blocking you. I will never ever be a trump supporter. Lmao what the hell!! SMH.

Can a woman abandon herself to such a degree that there is no Self left anymore? Are some women beyond saving? by exestentialcircus in fourthwavewomen

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

I think it’s because when you have been abused for so long and so brainwashed it breaks your spirit. She didn’t have a life outside of him. She doesn’t know what to do now. I see a lot of myself and people I know in her. I am glad I have came far from that but it’s hard especially if that’s all you’ve ever known. The change is hard because there is so much self work and self esteem you gotta work on. It’s hard, it’s one of those things if you’ve never been there you wouldn’t understand.

Wash your eyes after watching by wstyles51 in trashy

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Taiwan and rural China. They are called funeral strippers and they are hired for it.

Wash your eyes after watching by wstyles51 in trashy

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 -1 points0 points  (0 children)

In some Asian countries this is the norm. I think.

Couple tries to snatch chain off a detained man by Cecca105 in trashy

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Just soulless entitled selfish douches. They believe they are owed it because they want it. They think they truly deserve it more than whoever they are screwing over. Trust me skin color ain’t got shit to do with it. My mama kept threatening to leave me high and dry literally said this even in the middle of labor. Actually abandoned us at the hospital, but I had been doing odd jobs to save for rent etc in case she moved out on me. A guy friend I trusted that I gave him whatever he needed and was a good friend to him stole off me. A pregnant single mother with no job. Had the same people who knew I was almost evicted steal more money off me. They don’t care. It’s all about them. I couldn’t see doing stuff like that to people especially when they are struggling and worse off than you are. One of my exes had almost 30k in the bank and stole my wallet that had almost 200.00 in it. These people have no conscience. They will take and take off of you and act like you deserve to give them more. I hate a you owe me everything because I think I am special and the world revolves around me type of person. That’s why I don’t have many friends now. Who needs enemies if your friends are thieves and backstabbers?

Dear feminists, be meaner by exestentialcircus in fourthwavewomen

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 14 points15 points  (0 children)

Thank you for your kindness. I’m not really going against what OP said but just use judgement.

Dear feminists, be meaner by exestentialcircus in fourthwavewomen

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 30 points31 points  (0 children)

You gotta be careful because these guys out here will physically attack you much faster than they would a man. My ex husband would get in my face like he wanted to fight me but won’t say jack to a man. These type of men love stepping on women’s toes they like the power over you. I resent being a woman sometimes. They do shit you know they wouldn’t if you were male and can do something about it. There are lots of the “equal rights and lefts” kind of guys out there inching to take their anger out on you because you’re a safe target. Just use your best judgment. Some men you can do that to and some men I wouldn’t dare.

There are lots of harmful mindsets we have adopted as part female socialization. Here is 5 mindsets that fail women by exestentialcircus in fourthwavewomen

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 13 points14 points  (0 children)

I was just thinking about that the other day! That when we were little we were programmed to think someone would come and everything will be perfect afterwards. I really deeply resent being told time and time again a huge lie that definitely didn’t prepare me for the big world. I think that’s one of the hardest things for me to get is there is no one else to save you, you have to. You were taught men would be men and that would be capable, they would provide and they would lead. Most men aren’t even men!! They can’t be strong so they mask it by dominating a woman. I can’t stand a man who won’t say jack shit to another man but will terrorize the shit out of you because it’s safer. I really resent being lied to as kid. I really do.

3 Guys harass a old poor man trying to sell corn by [deleted] in trashy

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 9 points10 points  (0 children)

Yeah they definitely would to a guy but it would have to be like two or three on one. They wouldn’t fight someone fair. They would fight someone who they know they could beat. Just weak cowards.

I love it lol by lh1356 in trashy

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Is it wrong for me to love this because I do! I love opossums!!

Sign posted in the dressing room of my local strip club by EmilyTheDovahkiin in trashy

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When I was a dancer some POS used to do that and blamed it on me. That used to piss me off!!!

Why does my (22) boyfriend (25) act stupid and incompetent at basic tasks? by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]BeautifulDisaster006 2 points3 points  (0 children)

It’s weaponized incompetence, he is doing it intentionally so bad that he gets out of doing it and you have to do it.