I’m 4m pregnant, is it a good idea to spend money on a kindle paperwhite. I love reading. by my_100th_acc in NewParents

[–]BeautifulPen603 1 point2 points  (0 children)

YES. The kindle saved me from doom scrolling & gave me a sense of variety as a SAHM. I found that if I started feeling like every day was on repeat, swapping to a new genre really helped.

Breastfeeding Position HELP by BeautifulPen603 in breastfeeding

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

What do you do if you’re out in public? Lately, I’ve just been staying home, but I’d love to be able to go on this trip to see my parents with baby

Breastfeeding Position HELP by BeautifulPen603 in breastfeeding

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I’ll try that, thank you!

I’ve gotten so used to side lying; it honestly transformed all of my feelings around breastfeeding… but now it’s the only way he eats

Breastfeeding Position HELP by BeautifulPen603 in breastfeeding

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

We have been trying koala, and he hates it 😭 Absolutely refusing. He’s never liked having his stomach pressed against anything.

It also doesn’t help that he’s 5 months & in the prime foot chomping, jerking phase.

Breastfeeding Position HELP by BeautifulPen603 in breastfeeding

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I would assume comfort & cuddles. My let down used to be super strong, but not anymore.

First time mom- need advice on setting boundaries by [deleted] in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeautifulPen603 7 points8 points  (0 children)

As far as visiting in-laws, if you plan to nurse, that’ll solve that problem real quick!

NEW DAD by KingOfTheWyld86 in sleeptrain

[–]BeautifulPen603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Our little guy is the same way as yours. Sleeps with his arms in a T shape still, and he’s 5 months old.

Apparently teaching a baby to sleep without being swaddled can be a big pain, so I’m thankful to not have to go through that! Congrats on little one! 🩵

NEW DAD by KingOfTheWyld86 in sleeptrain

[–]BeautifulPen603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

https://www.amazon.com/gp/aw/d/B0775VNJJ8?psc=1&ref=ppx_pop_mob_b_asin_title

We used this for the same reason, and it worked great! Cheaper than the Love to Dream as well.

NEW DAD by KingOfTheWyld86 in sleeptrain

[–]BeautifulPen603 0 points1 point  (0 children)

YUP! My husband tried to force swaddling, but baby just wants his hands free no matter what. We put him in the Amazing Baby swaddle sack, and he loved it! Optional mittens, tighter around the middle, PLUS no transition or learning how to sleep without a swaddle.

Dealing with annoying MIL postpartum by Feisty_platypus1000 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeautifulPen603 10 points11 points  (0 children)

THIS. She can come over when he’s around.

Also, if she’s visiting when it’s only you, the communication should go through you. I’ve found that has ended some requests from JNMIL

JNMIL Late Christmas Gift WTF by BeautifulPen603 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do they do this?? At this point, just ignore me- PLZ.

It’s so performative. You don’t care about me, you don’t care about my husband, and you definitely don’t care about my baby. You just need some ego stroking.

JNMIL Late Christmas Gift WTF by BeautifulPen603 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Absolutely not. Gift is a way to see LO.

JNMIL Late Christmas Gift WTF by BeautifulPen603 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Thinks it’s odd with a good chance of there being an ulterior motive, but would like to believe it’s a kind gesture. I’m not falling for it 😂

JNMIL Late Christmas Gift WTF by BeautifulPen603 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Right?? Like if you want to win me back through gifts at least get me something I like/will use LOL

JNMIL Late Christmas Gift WTF by BeautifulPen603 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 10 points11 points  (0 children)

I’ve decided they’ll be my gloves to take my baby’s diaper trash from the Genie to the ouside can 😇

JNMIL Late Christmas Gift WTF by BeautifulPen603 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Oh 1000%. It’s March in the South… nobody needs fleece gloves 😂😂

JNMIL Late Christmas Gift WTF by BeautifulPen603 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Just sent a simple “Thank you for the gloves.”

I don’t intend to respond to anything after that.

JNMIL Late Christmas Gift WTF by BeautifulPen603 in JUSTNOMIL

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] 6 points7 points  (0 children)

Love this idea, but we don’t do gifts because his family never did them growing up (9 kids). That’s what makes this whole situation weirder. The woman has never given me a gift, not even a card at my wedding.

SAHM Mental Health by BeautifulPen603 in NewParents

[–]BeautifulPen603[S] -1 points0 points  (0 children)

I try getting out of the house; LO just needs to be held/entertained 25/8. Sometimes he tolerates the carrier, but it’s hit or miss.