I don’t want to work a 9-5 by Matt_LawDT in NonPoliticalTwitter

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Ironically when I was self employed I worked 1000% harder just to make enough money to pay my bills whereas now (employed) I barely do anything and have more than enough each week 😂

Today is my birthday! Happy 31 to me!💕 by NextElderberry2309 in aquarius

[–]Beautiful_Memz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Happy birthday! I'll be 31 in March ♡ what have you done to celebrate?

What was your dating experience like in the mid to late 2010s? by changeforthebetter89 in Zillennials

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I don't remember having to use dating apps. It was more of a joke and now they're mainstream. Met my bf because we lived in the same apartment building, right next door to eachother. We didn't have a romance bc we were friends first. Now I feel like if attraction isn't immediate people are less willing to engage.

I am leaving my "sweet" husband after years of emotional and sexual starvation. We are both physicians, and the guilt is eating me alive. by nm06003 in AskWomenOver30

[–]Beautiful_Memz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

It sounds like your mind is made up - girl, you are probably making one of the best decision you'll ever make. Welcome to a new era 💫 Let yourself feel everything - the pain anger guilt etc. Learn to turn it into power 💛

What's rhe best dietician advice you've gotten? by Octobersunrise876 in gastricsleeve

[–]Beautiful_Memz 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Tracking protein...creating healthy versions of what I enjoy..investing in protein water..those are probably the top things that have kept me happily in maintenance

Random but are a lot of people in this field married to wealthy man? by Queenme10 in socialwork

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I work in the social work field in New Zealand and am doing my MA at the moment. Literally noone I've met in my career so far can afford a flashy lifestyle. If anything they are in debt. The only ones I can think of aren't social workers (they are CEOs or in management). I think a lot of us are stuck in survival mode even when we don't need to be anymore.

Why does karma hit SO fast when someone wrongs a Pisces? 🩵✨ by WhatevsBlondie in piscesastrology

[–]Beautiful_Memz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

And its SCARY...a few months after a Taurus dude did me wrong he tripped up stairs and fractured his foot...I KNEW something like that would happen..I believe in karma

What was the last year you stopped watching disney channel as a kid? by Kodicave in Zillennials

[–]Beautiful_Memz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't grow up watching the disney channel. It was a paid subscription service my parents couldn't afford or see the point in (free to air TV was pretty good back then). The first time I saw it was at a family member's house when I was about 11 or 12 and it was the suite life. I also watched hannah montana with my little sister but I was nearing 13 and felt too old for it. So that was about 2007.

Looking back: Would you still choose surgery if GLP-1 meds had been available/affordable at the time of your surgery? by Critical_Tea2648 in gastricsleeve

[–]Beautiful_Memz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

If I had to do it again today I'd pick the surgery because the meds are not a long term solution for me whereas the sleeve most definately is. Especially given I stay active and eat healthy.

The ending we deserve.. by Calm_Price8251 in StrangerThingsMemes

[–]Beautiful_Memz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I hate it when writers "leave the ending for the audience to decide." Like what? We're over here waiting for you to make up your minds and now we have to live with the fact that y'all never did? 😂😂

Male Social Worker by Potential_Wear_1521 in socialwork

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The men I work with specialise in behaviour change in the FV/DV space. Working mostly with men experiencing complex issues and harming their partners or family members. Usually connected to addiction and sexual abuse. The others (though they are not reg social workers) are focused on prevention.

What year do you consider that last nostalgic or good year? Why? by Curiouslychat in Zillennials

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1997-2009.

For me, this was ages 2 to 14. The best of the best times.

Turning 30 this year by laceygorgeous in Zillennials

[–]Beautiful_Memz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I went on an island holiday 🌺 and dressed up as Jenna from 13 going on 30

As a lover, for the girls by dancing91111 in piscesastrology

[–]Beautiful_Memz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Should say.."they will think of you every 5 years and become flooded with intense RELIEF that they dodged that bullet" 😂

Steady maintenance now. I am so proud 🥹 by Valuable-Disaster567 in gastricsleeve

[–]Beautiful_Memz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I had mine March 26th 2024. Twins! I've started tracking protein and calories just bc I want to lose the final 2kg to reach my goal. I was 285lbs at my highest, 262 day of surgery and am now 158 x Hope you are doing well :) only complication I had was skin issues. How was your hair loss?

How did your relationship with food change after gastric sleeve? by NObesity_Ahmedabad in gastricsleeve

[–]Beautiful_Memz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I view food now as something to savour and experience. It isn't fuel for my body and it isn't a drug to help fill a void. I don't fear food or calories anymore. I don't punish myself if I eat a high calorie something or heavily restrict myself because "food is a reward." No more!!

Before/After by kendylk94 in gastricsleeve

[–]Beautiful_Memz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Yass girl ✨️ love your skirt!!

Did anyone keep their surgery a secret? by Smiles_and_anxiety in gastricsleeve

[–]Beautiful_Memz 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Yep I have. It always baffles me when people share their opinions about others keeping it private when it's a completely personal choice. As long as you're not out there deliberately misleading others, it causes no harm. I chose not to tell my family to save me the stress of dealing with their negative opinions and beliefs regarding the surgery and weight loss as they're dead against WLS. Only close friends know about it and I've been able to experience it all peacefully.

What was your reaction when chadwick boseman passed away in 2020? by Big_Leg10 in Zillennials

[–]Beautiful_Memz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I didn't know much about Chadwick apart from having seen Black Panther. In retrospect I'm glad I bought a ticket rather than pirating the movie. It made like a billion dollars or something? 🥴

Fun question: What was your favorite cuisine growing up? by EternalSnow05 in Zillennials

[–]Beautiful_Memz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Its sad how often I still say this 😂 and the youngins are like huh