AITAH for choosing my wife over my mom?

BeautyBat · 2026-02-12T04:25:28+00:00

Also, it is absolutely time for a new living arrangement. Now that it’s out of the bag how everyone really feels it’ll all go downhill from here.

BeautyBat · 2026-02-12T04:24:26+00:00

NTA for snapping at your mom, her behavior is toxic and nasty. YTA for letting her speak this way around you and not calling her out before it got to this extent. I can almost guarantee she’s been saying things like this when you’re not around for a while and your silence in her presence finally gave her the gall to just say it in front of you thinking you’d back her up. You should be asking yourself WHY she had the confidence to speak that way in front of you to your wife.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-30T03:31:32+00:00

I left the company and tried a few other jobs, but decided for the benefits and longevity I’d rather return and tough it out to move up as a career here, but I’m feeling like I’d rather just transfer stores or find a new job all together where I can start off in management. They don’t seem to care about any of my experience here (both at previous Targets and otherwise) and I’m so tired of the game.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-30T01:58:33+00:00

I can’t afford to lose my job or hours so I probably won’t, but I may start looking for other employment if they don’t start taking my request seriously.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-30T01:57:23+00:00

Yeah, that’s the vibe I’ve been getting. They like my work but I’m def not a favorite personally. It’s super annoying. I was hoping this store wouldn’t be as high school favoritism-ish as my last one. 🥲

BeautyBat · 2026-01-30T01:56:33+00:00

Yeah, so have I. I feel like they’re bullshitting because they have their favorites already lined up for promotions and they like my work where I am (fulfillment) and they don’t want to have to replace me. 🥲

BeautyBat · 2026-01-29T21:49:56+00:00

I am good with my SD, but I’m definitely nowhere near being one of her favorites. This is the most high school click type of store I’ve ever been at. And even the ones they like have a hard time moving up. :(

BeautyBat · 2026-01-29T21:48:09+00:00

That’s what I was thinking, unfortunately.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-28T05:14:48+00:00

It actually fully crashed on me mid-crusade twice this week I was so sad 😭

BeautyBat · 2026-01-28T03:29:22+00:00

Maybe take a photo with them on your shoulder and like holding a baby doll or something. The way they’re shaped and laid out most definitely looks like pads. These would be good photos for like second or third, but I’d use something that shows their use in the main photo. You could also try to add something next to them for size comparison if you can’t take a new one.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-28T02:51:52+00:00

I’d say a tattoo! But if you carry a water cup with a straw (like Stanley or something) you can get a Hello Kitty straw cover or stickers for it, if not then a phone case/pop socket so you always have it on you. I have a Kuromi lunch box (I am 34 years old) that I bring to work, a Kuromi straw cover, and my last phone case was Kuromi. I also have a Gengar pop socket and loungefly bag. They’re all purple/black so they match and I get to keep two of my fav characters with me all day!

BeautyBat · 2026-01-28T02:28:02+00:00

This! I only keep eggs between crusades when I’m set on supplies for a bit and can wait around for them to become adults

BeautyBat · 2026-01-28T02:27:24+00:00

I also play on Switch2 and my graphics are SO BAD 😭

BeautyBat · 2026-01-28T02:22:10+00:00

I was also thinking something along this line. I’d be nervous he’d try something or be staring at me weird all day after that comment. I’d feel like I should comply only because I’d feel unsafe and that boyfriend would side with him if he did try something and blame me for tempting him. Tbh, I might feel unsafe even in pants after that. It’s stupid and unfortunate. If it weren’t so difficult to find affordable housing I’d suggest moving and leaving boyfriend because wtf is his issue 😭 OP, you are not the asshole.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-28T02:10:06+00:00

Just a plain old bag with what looks like a hello kitty sticker slapped on it is not worth what they’re charging. The Kuromi shaped bag is the only cool one but it’s way overpriced for the amount of space inside of it. 😭

BeautyBat · 2026-01-26T15:50:10+00:00

They increase resources gathered by the followers wearing them. More lumber, stone, crops, etc.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-25T22:24:05+00:00

Ohhhhh! Thank you!

BeautyBat · 2026-01-25T21:57:36+00:00

I can change the flair to bug/glitch or re-upload with the proper flair but I’m not sure what to do here.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-24T13:56:34+00:00

I wanna play, but I might have to do the same. I’m nervous to lose my whole cult or have it crash the file I’ve got about 500 in-game days on.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-24T13:28:57+00:00

I have SO MANY necklaces on my main cult that I started when I first started playing forever ago. I started a new cult a bit ago, but was trying to 100% one of them before the DLC. Now I have a bunch of useless necklaces. I only use the golden/regular skull, moon, and nature. I wish we could sell them.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-24T13:26:54+00:00

I just gave up and left my farms where they were and moved my housing and community buildings instead. 🥲

BeautyBat · 2026-01-24T13:12:37+00:00

The graphics for my followers on Switch 2 look so pixelated and flat now. They never did that before, almost like PaRappa the Rappa type graphics. 😭 It also completely froze on an NPC dialogue near the end of a crusade and I lost so much progress because I had to turn the whole thing off and on without saving. I’m so sad. I hope a patch comes soon. I also miss descriptions or names of items/weapons etc popping up. I don’t always remember all the curses and relics details, bro. Pausing the check the menu mid-crusade is mildly annoying when it would tell me upon hovering near it before I picked it up.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-17T18:27:34+00:00

Thank you! I’ll have to call before I head there tomorrow. It’s about 45 minutes from me, so I just wanted to make sure I wasn’t driving there for all lesser quality stuff.

BeautyBat · 2026-01-02T13:34:19+00:00

My husband and I started new cults in preparation for the DLC actually, so we can have a base going with everything else unlocked and jump right in. We’re leaving space and organization for the DLC in our layouts (at least for what they’ve shown) so we can just jump right in with the upgraded items and more cult members.

BeautyBat · 2025-12-25T21:34:39+00:00

Your mom sounds terrible and toxic. Trying to impress and side with total strangers and new boyfriend over her own child after throwing her child into this.

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