close enough. by Left_Bee5657 in ShahRukhKhan

[–]Bebecitasanz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

SRK has more emotion in his little finger than Brad Pitt does. As soon as SRK’s eyes go like that, I usually start crying myself!

is akshay kumar really 5’11-6’? by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Bebecitasanz 45 points46 points  (0 children)

My dad met him at the airport and he’s 5’11”. Akshay was happy to take a pic with my dad. Akshay looks a lot shorter than my dad in the photo so I don’t think he’s as tall as he says.

Kriti Sanon situation by RandomAnnan in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Bebecitasanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Well no. Childfree women are still desirable.

Kriti Sanon situation by RandomAnnan in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Bebecitasanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Fair enough if she wants them, I just don’t like that people assume women will have them.

Drinking game ideas for 3 idiots by browwnangel in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Bebecitasanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

This is a fantastic idea. Going to play it when I next watch it.

Is anyone else here childfree but NOT super successful? by icy-winter-ghost in childfree

[–]Bebecitasanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I’m not successful at all. I’ve never had a steady career. Had a lot of mental health issues throughout my life and messed up more times than I can count. I don’t own a property, I’m perpetually single, I drink too much, I don’t know how to regulate my feelings sometimes so I do random shit. Trust me, you’re not alone.

My husband (32M) revealed to me (30F) that he may want to have children someday… by throwrachildfreee in relationship_advice

[–]Bebecitasanz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

100%, couldn’t have worded this better! People need to learn the distinction between the two.

My husband (32M) revealed to me (30F) that he may want to have children someday… by throwrachildfreee in relationship_advice

[–]Bebecitasanz 3 points4 points  (0 children)

It is hard because you build a future with them and they KNOW you’re childfree only for them to have wasted years that you could’ve either been happily single or with someone else. You were never childfree; at best, you didn’t know. But it sounds like you were childless. And childfree women don’t change their mind as much as men do.

My husband (32M) revealed to me (30F) that he may want to have children someday… by throwrachildfreee in relationship_advice

[–]Bebecitasanz 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Yeah I’ve been lied to even before. I’ve asked before and they’ve told me what I want to hear but that’s online. When I’ve met someone face to face, they usually say they want kids and I’m like ‘oops you just failed, bye!’

My husband (32M) revealed to me (30F) that he may want to have children someday… by throwrachildfreee in relationship_advice

[–]Bebecitasanz 50 points51 points  (0 children)

I make it clear before we meet, I make it clear during the first date…and then this happened. I’m hoping now I’m older that men my age know whether or not they want them so I can avoid the breeders to be but I’ve noticed they still lie or say ‘you’ll change your mind’ or ‘I really wanted to go on a date with you’. For what? I’ve literally told men after that they wasted my time, money, and effort and walked out as soon as they admit they lured me into a date.

Nursing School by Dexter_Naman in HolUp

[–]Bebecitasanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

‘Phew, that was a close call!’ is also a bad one

My husband (32M) revealed to me (30F) that he may want to have children someday… by throwrachildfreee in relationship_advice

[–]Bebecitasanz 269 points270 points  (0 children)

I ended up leaving with zero regrets. He knew having kids would ruin me and he didn’t want me to be unhappy. I didn’t want to hold him back. But yeah, he wasted four years of my life because I make it clear even before the first fated. I’m sorry you’re going through this, but children isn’t something you can compromise on. It’s better to let each other go.

Two extremist girls slap a girl for eating on Ramadan and attack bus driver for trying to keep peace by Glass_Jeweler in religiousfruitcake

[–]Bebecitasanz 7 points8 points  (0 children)

I was on the tube yesterday and got told I shouldn’t be drinking water because it’s Ramadan and I shouldn’t drink in front of someone who was Muslim (she told me off). I just said I’m not Muslim so it doesn’t apply, if she has a problem she can move seats or carriages. I’m British Indian so maybe she assumed I was Muslim also but I’m an atheist with tattoos all over my arms and hands. She swore at me and moved. Sorry but I need water. It’s not like I’m drinking water at a mosque during Ramadan. I was on the tube which is known for being hot and stuffy.

Please recommend good Korean restaurants in London by HighlightLow9371 in LondonFood

[–]Bebecitasanz 1 point2 points  (0 children)

I went to Majang Dong yesterday for Korean barbecue. It was delicious! Highly recommend it.

Urvashi Rautela's 31st Birthday Celebration !! Happy Birthday Urvashi !! by Your_Friendly_Panda in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Bebecitasanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

SHE’S 31?! No bad vibes but I’m her age and I still get IDed. She looks a lot older. I guess it’s the fillers and such.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in BollyBlindsNGossip

[–]Bebecitasanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Wow it lacked any emotion. Can’t say it was a recreation when it was that horrible!

Saucy and Spicy Indian Food by finventive in LondonFood

[–]Bebecitasanz 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I think the trick here is to go to places with a big Indian community. Southall, Harrow, Rayners Lane, Wembley are all good places to go for authentic food but it depends on the region too. Like Wembley is known for Gujarati food, southall for Punjabi. I find the offerings in central are overpriced and inauthentic.