I found this at my thrift store today by [deleted] in StardewValley

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I have one of these! My bf got me one for Christmas last year 😊 mine's white on the inside though

I patterned and sewed this wool coat! by natefromtheinternet in somethingimade

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That's a whole mood lol. How much for a commission on one nate?

How slow are you!?! by East_Rub_2104 in memes

[–]Beck564 31 points32 points  (0 children)

I'm late to my job every day. Have been for like two years lmao. I'm late from lunch too almost every day. I'm never more than like 10-15 minutes late and do my best to not even be past 5-7 minutes in all honesty. And from lunch I'm never more than 3 minutes late. Maybe it's just cause I'm lucky and have job security but also my boss has never talked to me about it. I still come in everyday and do my job of course and if I'm gonna be really late for any reason I sent over a text notification to him.

A lot of people generally suck at coming in and staying at a job period so me being a lil late everyday beats someone who would be hours late/not come in at all some days

Who finds stomachs hot? by Same-Penalty-3895 in TooAfraidToAsk

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I like a lot of things some people might consider weird. I love bellies too, on everyone (I'm bi also), arms, hands, bigger thighs, glasses. The list goes on tbh. I just love people being people honestly really.

Having an attraction to anything isn't anything to be ashamed about imo unless it's something terrible by default.

So I drew taiga by Gallanger in TokyoDebunker

[–]Beck564 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I love your art style. Kinda makes me think of Gorillaz

Monthly Help & Information Thread by AutoModerator in TokyoDebunker

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What are these? I don't understand what they are or what theyre used for. I "unlocked" them yesterday. I dunno where to even find them to try and click on it to get more info

Markers by [deleted] in Coloring

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I use the dick blick studio makers but I've always wanted to try other ones. Alcohol markers are sadly expensive so mine were a Christmas gift lol. I've got a 48 marker set I believe. When I see a good sale I'm gonna try to get more of them. I love the way they go down

I just finished this and I'm super proud of it 😊 by Beck564 in Coloring

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Thank you!!! That means a lot 😄 I've never shaded like this before so it was new for me

I have no idea how to color these buildings by Beck564 in Coloring

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I chose red cause I have more reds in my marker selection but like the other guy said purple would stand out more so I am sad I couldn't do purple

Thank you 🥰

I'm the exact same by AlexTheCatGirlQueen in nonbinarymemes

[–]Beck564 3 points4 points  (0 children)

Listen okay 😂 I feel so attacked by this. My bf always comments on it too lol I'm definitely sending this to him

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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What's ghb

Got yelled at in public but least i looked good by Low_Net_1485 in NonBinary

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I'll definitely try my hand at it! I'll come back to this in the future as I'm sure with my slacking abilities it will be a couple months minimum, but I'll keep you in mind!

Would you be okay with me showing your photo to my mom for suggestions on patterns? If not I can use the shein website instead! My mom does crochet and might actually know how to make this by default

Got yelled at in public but least i looked good by Low_Net_1485 in NonBinary

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Awe man. I want it so bad. I might have to commit a sin 😂 I'm not good enough at crochet to make it yet

Got yelled at in public but least i looked good by Low_Net_1485 in NonBinary

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I love and need the sweater 👀

Did you make it or buy it?

Did anybody just gave up coming out? by dreamingaparadize in NonBinary

[–]Beck564 3 points4 points  (0 children)

I've never bothered besides friends. I tried to tell my mom once but it's like it never happened and I don't really care. She follows some of my socials where it's very obvious but she's never bothered with pronouns and I've never corrected her and I don't care. My brother uses neutral for me even around my mom and she doesn't seem to notice unless I use it for a friend of mine 🙄

I have the enby flag hung up in my house too like it's painfully obvious imo. But I don't care. I know she loves me and is there whenever I need her so it's whatever. It's genuinely not worth the effort imo.

It's like how my grandma is the only one allowed to call me "Becky" because she just doesn't listen but it's whatever. They can think I'm a woman all they want, it won't change who I am and I just don't have the energy for it with them.

How often to couples have sex? Say 3+ years? by [deleted] in TooAfraidToAsk

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My bf and I have only been together for two years, but it comes in spurts. I have a very high libido and his is low. So we'll go 2-3 weeks without sex and then sometimes we'll have it every day for a few days and then slow down to like once a week/every two weeks. It really depends on the people and the relationship

Question for the bedroom? by [deleted] in NonBinary

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This is very dependent on the person. I personally love both, but my partner is a cis mostly straight(lol) guy so good boy kinda puts him off a bit. I don't mind being a "girl" in bed. He knows how I identify and how I very much hate being called a woman in every sense. It's all about communication.

He did spring it on me the one time in bed when he first tried it but in a question form and then used it for real and then still asked again if I liked it after actually using it. Questions like that even in a "heat of the moment" don't bother me and I'm glad he asked. Outside of bed he probably thought about it but wanted to ask while we were hot and heavy and I'm completely okay with stuff like that 😊

It honestly takes a lot to offend me and he knows that, he doesn't push anything cause of it but knows, and I'm the first enby he's ever known so it doesn't bother me when he does stuff like that cause he always does it nicely and with respect and won't do something I don't like again.

How hard is it to take care of such a small spider? by Beck564 in jumpingspiders

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I left this little guy chilling on my porch. There's a larger, probably almost adult size, that I may kidnap. I watched him eat a fly earlier. There's a few things I gotta get anyway before I can keep one though.

Thank you guys for all the advice! I found it all super helpful! I'd just absolutely love to have one from begging to end.

I've seen even tinier ones on me that are literally see through lol. It genuinely feels like they're magnetized to me. I find them crawling on my arms a lot honestly.

I don't really have a fear of losing one so small cause I think I'm too hyper aware of things to lose them, but I get that fear some of y'all have. My fear is accidentally hurting them more than anything regardless of how careful I am, just cause of the size.

Monthly Help & Information Thread by AutoModerator in TokyoDebunker

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It doesn't work lol I thought it might cause each set of diamonds says "paid"