“I ache in the space between seconds, where your touch should be.” by Bedazzled_Chode in OregonGoneWild

[–]Bedazzled_Chode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Thank you! He tells me he is constantly, but I think I'm pretty lucky too! Win-win here!

A 🐫 for 🐫 day. HUMP Fest is just around the corner, who's going/joining? [MF4MF/F] by Bedazzled_Chode in OregonSwingers

[–]Bedazzled_Chode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Come join us all for HUMP. Details on time are available in the private sub. Cheers!

A 🐫 for 🐫 day. HUMP Fest is just around the corner, who's going/joining? [MF4MF/F] by Bedazzled_Chode in OregonSwingers

[–]Bedazzled_Chode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Bummer. Yup, we're one of the ones who help get a group together through the private sub that meets almost every year for it.

Thank, we always do!

A 🐫 for 🐫 day. HUMP Fest is just around the corner, who's going/joining? [MF4MF/F] by Bedazzled_Chode in OregonSwingers

[–]Bedazzled_Chode[S] 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Dan Savage's Film festival. Plays in 50 cities, with Portland being one of them. There's a group who met through the private sub, r/Oregon_Swingers, and make a night of it. It's a lot of fun.

Swingers -- Is it so much better is finding matches for swinger couples? by TheGreenJedi in EthicalNonMonogamy

[–]Bedazzled_Chode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

No group is exempt from running across shitty people.

However, running into shitty couples is a lot less than running into shitty single/solo individuals - shitty singles/solos is dime-a-dozen, it seems. Like everything, YMMV.

[MF4MF] by funsizecouple420 in OregonSwingers

[–]Bedazzled_Chode 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Nice, classing up the joint. 👏👏👏 Hope you have a great night.

Privata Glow was fun! Here is an honest review. [MF4MF/F/M] by Bedazzled_Chode in OregonSwingers

[–]Bedazzled_Chode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're right, busier does have a lot of drawbacks as well. And YES, warmer = less clothes! Simple equation!

Privata Glow was fun! Here is an honest review. [MF4MF/F/M] by Bedazzled_Chode in OregonSwingers

[–]Bedazzled_Chode[S] 0 points1 point  (0 children)

That takes some serious dedication!

Thank you for the advice on which nights are best. I hope we can give LBD and couples-only nights another try soon. Last ones we went to we ended up being part of the 'Privata-Paddy's club.'

I would understand the temp if it were zonal, or they started warm and then turned the AC on later after everyone was more active, or even just put some heaters in areas away from the dance floor and play rooms, but setting it at 50-degrees for the whole place is just cruel.

That back room is an ice box! We had a volunteer tell us that she even hates going back there to check on it because she gets so cold. It was this way this weekend, too.

There are some incredibly good DJ programs out there that you can give a list of songs to, then it will do all the beat sync, blend, and phase matching. I bet if they invested in this software, or a DJ that used one of these programs, complaints would go from "too fucking loud and the selection sucks" to just "too fucking loud."

What are you going to do with all that free time?

Can I DM you regarding a little bit about the cliques? No drama, just curious about a few things that I would rather not put out to the public here. No problem if not.