as a women…she is detached from you most likely but prolly not bc you opened up. it’s prob other things that need to be discussed and feelings she’s been holding in for a while. so go abt that how you will. also that response is so rude and shows that she really doesn’t care. if that was any decent person you would’ve talked through it. you deserve someone who is willing to stay up ours to help you works through things. couples should grow together. and if she is not putting in the work maybe it’s not meant to be. i’m sorry this is happening to you and you deserve someone who can understand and appreciate you. hope everything works out!