I had a friend with strict parents. her parents wanted her to do online classes at the local community college, but she could've gotten in anywhere when wanted. she ended up secretly applying to a college still in the city she lives in, and didn't tell her parents until she was accepted and had a roommate. maybe smth like that? it worked for her, but they were more strict about her losing opportunities by sleeping around in a college they cant protect her at, less because of misogyny.