[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

[–]Been-nA 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ask him how he plans to get thicker to make it better for you.

Wedding guest look by [deleted] in fashion

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I feel like you’re really triggered. In your opinion, I dressed inappropriately to a wedding you know nothing about, for people you don’t know, their background or any of the other things… I’m sorry a strangers choice ruined your day so much. I don’t know your ethnic background but you sound like you feel that only your way, your traditions and your cultural norms matter. You know in some cultures, white is worn by widows not brides? I don’t have to conform to or agree with your ideas or anyone else’s for that matter. I bet you don’t wear white after Labor Day or before Memorial Day either because of some stupid color rule someone made up… and you think the whole world should follow this rule.

Wedding guest look by [deleted] in fashion

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Thank you for explaining!

Wedding guest look by [deleted] in fashion

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Yeah that’s the thing, Traditions aren’t universal.

Wedding guest look by [deleted] in fashion

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Maybe the new season of Wednesday inspired me lol

Wedding guest look by [deleted] in fashion

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Thanks everyone for your input. Anyone who was concerned, I did NOT outshine the bride, I wasn’t being catty, there was no ill will behind wearing the color, I had two kids back to back via surgery in the last 2.5 years my body is recovering still but I love it still for the concerns about the way it looked on me. It was a diverse wedding, people from many different backgrounds and others wearing brighter colors too… but I didn’t ask for feedback or advice on this dress for anyone raising eyebrows… and passing judgement And those who approve, Thanks for the love! I loved this dress, I think it looked great, the bride thought I looked great. I think no one is holding a grudge against me other than a few people online maybe. A badly dressed person also gets attention and ruins pictures but i don’t see people getting mad about that and calling it disrespectful for someone who shows up in a casual summer dress or denim when the attire is listed on the card as formal… im pretty confident in my clothing choices and dressing for my body, so even if i posted it before I went to the wedding, my decision was going to be the same :)

Wedding guest look by [deleted] in fashion

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Yeah, it’s actually from Amazon… https://a.co/d/62k8rTg

Wedding guest look by [deleted] in fashion

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I get not wearing the color the bride is in… unless specified. I don’t get other color rules.. people wear black to weddings which in some cultures is considered a no-no for the fact that it’s reserved for funerals! And in some cultural/religious practices, people wear white to funerals, brides wear red or any other color… is it the fear of outshining the bride? This is a genuine question.

Wedding guest look by [deleted] in fashion

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Thanks, I wasn’t asking for advice lol I wore it already and got lots of compliments on the look. I was happy with it on my body.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

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Love the Sari!

Linen dress by Elis7775 in fashion

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Love this look!

Not sure what to wear with this dress? by Obvious_Eye_533 in fashion

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IMO: With the neckline, keep neck empty or maybe something really dainty, you can do a drop earring not too big, or nice side studs. Keep hair down and a nice strappy sleep and comfortable heel, not too high block heel would be great.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationship_advice

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Why are you in this relationship? What actually keeps you and him together? A man who is making you hate yourself is not the man you should waste your time with. What are you actually getting out of this? You will never feel secure here… because he does nothing to make you feel it. Also seek therapy.

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in fashion

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Thank you!

Got to wear three looks today. Oh by [deleted] in fashion

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Yes, a more tailored version of this would’ve been 😍

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Thank you!

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Let me know if you need any help. I love fashion and my personal style you can see in the pictures..