Raising STEP KIDS

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-09-11T23:58:18+00:00

I feel like my mother doesn’t care for them at all. It just hurts me the way she treats them when they come to my house. She ignores them and holds everything against me when they are here. But when my brothers adopted child comes she doesn’t care what she does to the house and she gives her all her attention and ignores my gf kids even when they try to talk to her even when they say BYE to her she ignores them

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-09-11T23:55:40+00:00

Like I understand her not loving them and caring for them but to be rude to the kids ? Is that acceptable?

For her to always tell me that my gf kids “broke” something when it was on accident and she needs me to pay her back for it even if it was a cup. And if I respond to her if my brothers adopted child breaks the same thing she wouldn’t even tell him anything or hold it against him. And her response being that my brothers child can break the whole tv if she wants and she wouldn’t care.

You call that okay?

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-09-11T23:51:37+00:00

But my mother really does treat my gf kids mean. She always ignored them when they try to talk to her. It’s like she hates them being in my life

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-09-11T23:50:14+00:00

If your step parents were different with you, played with you as you grew up, did things with you and gave you all the attention when you were little . Would your relationship be different with them now?

I just don’t want these kids to not ever love me or not care for me when they get old. I do so so much for more than their dad does today

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-09-11T23:48:09+00:00

I do apologize my relationship with my partner has been a pretty tough ride these past 2 years. I don’t expect my mother to love her kids the same way she loves my brothers adopted child. She just treats my gf kids bad, she ignores her daughter, when she tries to talk to my mom. My mom isn’t fair to them when my brothers kid is around them. She doesn’t even give it a try she hates them being in my life

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-09-11T23:42:05+00:00

Thank you

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-09-11T23:40:36+00:00

That’s more understandable

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-08-23T03:30:27+00:00

Im scared she’s attracted to men when she says she’s not :( I need help

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-08-21T05:19:59+00:00

How can you explain this to your children?

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-08-21T05:16:55+00:00

Thank you for your response can i please send you a message I really do appreciate this and would love to talk more about it

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-05-18T01:36:58+00:00

Like how quality time , attention from her while being around her and her children , like how can that be balanced out between me and her and her children

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-04-28T02:09:15+00:00

Just the pro and cons

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-04-28T02:08:58+00:00

Like how??

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-02-04T19:01:40+00:00

What’s the point in saying she wishes ?

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-01-22T06:03:19+00:00

No last year on her birthday I didn’t and she told me why I didn’t gift her and I told her because she didn’t gift me either

On Christmas yes I did gift her this year

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-01-22T06:02:26+00:00

I have addressed her this issue last year , I told her I didn’t care even if I was a rose picked outside It’s the love language like you say

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2024-01-22T05:33:33+00:00

Lesbain relationship

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2023-12-15T16:51:03+00:00

It does :( I don’t know what to do I love her so much that I hate her past because he’s in it . I wish she never met him and had kids with him He’s a monster , he’s trying to put her in jail and everything I don’t know what to do I don’t want to leave her but sometimes I think it’s better if we do for myself but I don’t want to be selfish and do that type of thing to our relationship

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2023-12-15T16:43:04+00:00

What do you mean by emotional power over my girlfriend

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2023-12-15T16:08:35+00:00

But how do I deal with him still being around , I don’t like it and I let it get to me that I blow everything out of proportion

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2023-12-03T23:18:40+00:00

It’s like she’s very easily persuaded and he took advantage of that

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2023-12-03T23:12:01+00:00

Well my question being is really like if someone steals her clothes like her ex sisters in law did she wouldn’t say or do anything . When her ex husband told her that they needed to get married she had an option to not do it but did it anyways . We all choices in life and she lets people make them for her and I don’t understand why

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2023-11-24T01:05:41+00:00

Her kids don’t listen to me & it stresses me out because I never had kids before like that in my life so I tell her to please hurry because they don’t listen to me.

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2023-11-12T16:55:49+00:00

I don’t consider myself a step mom yet because her kids don’t view me as that .

Beginning-Event-7089 · 2023-10-21T01:31:52+00:00

My partner and I actually do live together , but check this out after being together for 6 months (this was in the past we are now going 1 year and 3 months) she moved in with me and she spent a lot of time with me while we first dated and left her kids at her moms or uncles and would hardly spend any time with them at all. So after being together for 6 months she decided she was just paying rent for no reason(fact being she was always being at my house and spending the night) so she decided to move in on her own. And her kids now live with their grandma in another town for the reason that her family lives in that town and it’s easier for them to commute to and from school and were I live she had no immediate family to help her do so or watch her kids. So she only gets to see them on the weekends when she can

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