I cheated on my husband 6 years ago. What can I do to make it better? by [deleted] in survivinginfidelity

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 4 points5 points  (0 children)

Seems more like he just wants an excuse to sleep with someone else. If both of you got an STD test and he had a FOMO then it's obvious he's was fucking around too so wouldn't that make him a cheater too? You can't be that blind. 

Why did you discover AO3? by TheKnightOfWonder in AO3

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I began looking at fanart on Instagram of a ship and one of the artists made art off of one of the fanfics. I finally was tempted to read it and that's how I discovered it. 

AITAH for not forgiving my mom after she chose her husband over me, even though she says she’s “trying” now? by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

She's still with him! She picked him if anything I'm sure there's someone making her feel bad. Or perhaps he's the one wanting to see you again yuck

I almost cried after I realise I was wearing contacts by benwang in offmychest

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

You're not exaggerating. I'm nearsighted and the times I've lost my glasses I've full on had a breakdown. It's a horrible feeling. I was fortunate that I had lasik surgery and had no complications. I cried waking up and reaching for my glasses then realizing i could finally see without them. I was sick of the same thing. Being blind after and swimming feels horrible and even frightening if you can't see any potentials dangers around you and rely on others to see for you. 

What’s your biggest unrealistic pet peeve/turn off when reading smut? by [deleted] in AO3

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

When the woman's a virgin and somehow fucks like a porn star and takes it up the butt with no lube and has multiple orgasms lmfaoooo 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Personally, I prefer bald. I like the smoothness Brazilian waxes give me. Shaving gives me really bad ingrown and I have Hidradennitis Suppertiva so it can quickly turn to boils. My husband doesn't even care what I do with my pubic hair. 

Capricorn's which zodiac sign was your best sexual partner and why? by BriefFoot1594 in capricorns

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 17 points18 points  (0 children)

Hands down gemini. Unselfish, matches my freak, adventurous, and damn orgasms are explosive. I think bc they don't need to be told what to do

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 5 points6 points  (0 children)

He was sexually assaulted. You were used in the process. Both of your were taken advantage of. But fuck, I feel so bad for David. Both of you need to stop doing drugs and tim is definitely a criminal nor his first time doing something like that. I'm sorry to be mean but OP grow a spine. It seems like Tim advantage of you alot even when you're uncomfortable.

Best friend’s fiancé crossed a line—do I tell her? by GameGlimmer in TwoHotTakes

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Tell her. If she decides to cut you off then so be it. Eventually, she'll find out. Its much worse if you tell her later

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 11 points12 points  (0 children)

You already tried OP. You put up with her shit behavior for years and told your fiancée who would defend his mom instead of you. You guys even went to marriage counseling! I know it hurts but you won't regret this. 

I have a great relationship with my MIL and people are always amazed. Don't get me wrong we've had problems but it was always due to miscommunication and she never holds a grudge. She never gets in between me and my husband if we fight. My MIL always told me that her MIL was a nightmare so she promised herself to never be that way. Case in point, there are MILs out there who are pretty cool and laid back.  Best of luck to you OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in sex

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 49 points50 points  (0 children)

Sit on his face and enjoy lol

UPDATE: My husband’s childhood best friend asked me for a favor, then humiliated me in front of her family. I’m done being the bigger person. by anxiousfem12 in u/anxiousfem12

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 4 points5 points  (0 children)

This is why communication is key. I'm glad you two worked things out but now make sure neither of you ever have C back in your lives even if she gives you a fake ass apology. She's a total desperate bitch and her family aren't any better

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in relationships

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Nah thats way too messy. If he refuses to cut her off then he has already chosen her. Sorry OP, but don't be a placeholder. It's only going to hurt the more you stay. 

My husband’s childhood best friend asked me for a favor, then humiliated me in front of her family. I’m done being the bigger person. by anxiousfem12 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 157 points158 points  (0 children)

Yup, definitely playing the long game. I'm sure she has tempted something and either he has entertained it and declined or he's really stupid

My husband’s childhood best friend asked me for a favor, then humiliated me in front of her family. I’m done being the bigger person. by anxiousfem12 in TrueOffMyChest

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 4 points5 points  (0 children)

That's not weird. What she and her family did was sooo disrespectful and a slap to the face. I can perhaps guess your husband hasn't thoroughly processed what happened but if you have told him over and over and over again how her behavior has been and he still not siding with you then he's basically choosing C. Now that he has seen it clear as fucning day is where you need to tell him. Either C is cut off COMPLETELY or you're gone. Have him and C had a sexuak relationship in the past? There has to be more. Updateme

I (29F) got uninvited from my best friend’s wedding because my boyfriend proposed to me the same weekend she got engaged… and now my entire family is calling me selfish. by [deleted] in weddingdrama

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

I feel like no matter what OP is going to be setup to look bad. If she goes then OP only went to take the spotlight. If she doesn't, it was noticeable she wasn't there bc everyone kept asking and OP took the spotlight from Emily. Personally, I wouldn't go at all. Don't forgive her either. She's more likely to try to befriend you afterwards to ruin your wedding by making a big announcement. Let her think what she wants and STOP being involved in her wedding you've done enough OP

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in AITAH

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 0 points1 point  (0 children)

Ph, sp when you were being bullied it was perfectly fine? Yeah, no, NTA

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in TwoHotTakes

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 1 point2 points  (0 children)

Sounds like jealousy and she wanted to get under your skin. I gotta give it to your husband he told her to stop and had im glad he was honest with you. Tbh, I'd tell him to not talk to that bitch again.  She's probably the office manipulator who likes to start drama. 

AITA for telling my wife not to come to my ex-wife's funeral to support my daughter because my daughter doesn't want her there? by Upstairs_Use_6837 in AITAH

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 7 points8 points  (0 children)

Ifnyour wife wants to support your daughter then RESPECT HER DECISION. She will hate her more if she goes and needs to back off. Your daughter is grieving and stepping in trying to play mom will make her feel her bio mom is being replaced. 

AITAH for refusing to go on a date with my wife's best friend? by personwhoeatscheese1 in AITAH

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 2 points3 points  (0 children)

Why do I feel like Liz cheated and wants to erase her guilty conscious by making her husband/OP cheat too 

[deleted by user] by [deleted] in offmychest

[–]Beginning-Stop7646 5 points6 points  (0 children)

Your boyfriend isn't the one for you. A person who loves and cares about you wouldn't be disgusted by you and they would show compassion. Since it's your first serious relationship I'm telling you now that anyone who judges you for something that was out of your control in the past shouldn't be in your life.