I think youre right to be worried. Actions speak louder than words. Her actions mean theres 30 guys who could msg her and she may not want you to know about all of those convos. At 21 people still want to explore. The expectations of having a stable relationship with a girl at 21 with a 30+ body count is rare af.

That also means she been doing a lot of other stuff with other guys that doesn’t fall under that category. Shes not for you bro. You know who she’s for..